I ruined my chances with her.
No, that's not me next to her.
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1-10
No, that's not me next to her.
http://img442.imageshack.us/img442/6620/97993550.jpg
1-10
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How hot is the chick in this pic?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Scar Tissue
Don Juan
6.5-7.5
It would help to see the body
It would help to see the body
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
7.5-8.5
Son of anarchy
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7 like that,7.5 without fake tan and with a different hair cut.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Masked_angel
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5, just a regular girl. Didn't find her that attractive..
DonGorgon
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8...
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
well i would say 8.5 but im only 17 and im not used to seeing "decent" girls lol
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Prodigy746
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Personally i think shes pretty hot id give her a 8.5 at least. Most of my friends find my scale to be a little harsh ... usually when my friends say look at her shes a 10 .. i am usually the one that says naw she isnt that hot maybe a 8. The fact that some people are giving this girl a 5 is a bit ridiculous to me. If the girl is a 5 than i would love to see the girl that you guys are dating...
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Many people that have such a high scale usually are in a LTR with their dominant hand.Prodigy746 said:
I find her to be a 8.5 to 9
comic_relief
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She's not really my type, but she has a pretty face, and appears to have a nice body, from what little I can see. She doesnt appear to have big boobs, but thats not my thing anyway. I cant make a fair assessment without a close look at her ass, but I would say 7.5-8 based on the photo alone. Of course, in person, that might change.
I have a preference to exotic looking dark skinned brunette types myself though, but Im giving an unbiased opinion.
I have a preference to exotic looking dark skinned brunette types myself though, but Im giving an unbiased opinion.
women haze
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Not really my type.....I guess a 6
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
I love that face, can't really tell her body. It depends on the size of her boobs and her arse. She's looks pretty skinny. She's probably a 7 with the face. The guy looks like a queer.
kraytkiller
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Her head is turned at an angle.. Thus displaying her left ear in a more obvious light.FairShake said:
Also he even said in his post that isn't him in the pic.
I'd rate her... 7.. or 8 I guess
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.