I ruined my chances with her.
No, that's not me next to her.
http://img442.imageshack.us/img442/6620/97993550.jpg
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No, that's not me next to her.
http://img442.imageshack.us/img442/6620/97993550.jpg
1-10
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How hot is the chick in this pic?
- Thread starter Snowman23
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Scar Tissue
Don Juan
6.5-7.5
It would help to see the body
It would help to see the body
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
7.5-8.5
Son of anarchy
Don Juan
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7 like that,7.5 without fake tan and with a different hair cut.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Masked_angel
Don Juan
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5, just a regular girl. Didn't find her that attractive..
DonGorgon
Master Don Juan
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8...
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
well i would say 8.5 but im only 17 and im not used to seeing "decent" girls lol
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Prodigy746
Master Don Juan
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Personally i think shes pretty hot id give her a 8.5 at least. Most of my friends find my scale to be a little harsh ... usually when my friends say look at her shes a 10 .. i am usually the one that says naw she isnt that hot maybe a 8. The fact that some people are giving this girl a 5 is a bit ridiculous to me. If the girl is a 5 than i would love to see the girl that you guys are dating...
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Many people that have such a high scale usually are in a LTR with their dominant hand.Prodigy746 said:
I find her to be a 8.5 to 9
comic_relief
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She's not really my type, but she has a pretty face, and appears to have a nice body, from what little I can see. She doesnt appear to have big boobs, but thats not my thing anyway. I cant make a fair assessment without a close look at her ass, but I would say 7.5-8 based on the photo alone. Of course, in person, that might change.
I have a preference to exotic looking dark skinned brunette types myself though, but Im giving an unbiased opinion.
I have a preference to exotic looking dark skinned brunette types myself though, but Im giving an unbiased opinion.
women haze
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Not really my type.....I guess a 6
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
I love that face, can't really tell her body. It depends on the size of her boobs and her arse. She's looks pretty skinny. She's probably a 7 with the face. The guy looks like a queer.
kraytkiller
Don Juan
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Her head is turned at an angle.. Thus displaying her left ear in a more obvious light.FairShake said:
Also he even said in his post that isn't him in the pic.
I'd rate her... 7.. or 8 I guess
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.