I ruined my chances with her.
No, that's not me next to her.
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No, that's not me next to her.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How hot is the chick in this pic?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Scar Tissue
Don Juan
6.5-7.5
It would help to see the body
It would help to see the body
Joe Stud
Master Don Juan
7.5-8.5
Son of anarchy
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7 like that,7.5 without fake tan and with a different hair cut.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Masked_angel
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5, just a regular girl. Didn't find her that attractive..
DonGorgon
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8...
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
well i would say 8.5 but im only 17 and im not used to seeing "decent" girls lol
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Prodigy746
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Personally i think shes pretty hot id give her a 8.5 at least. Most of my friends find my scale to be a little harsh ... usually when my friends say look at her shes a 10 .. i am usually the one that says naw she isnt that hot maybe a 8. The fact that some people are giving this girl a 5 is a bit ridiculous to me. If the girl is a 5 than i would love to see the girl that you guys are dating...
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Many people that have such a high scale usually are in a LTR with their dominant hand.Prodigy746 said:
I find her to be a 8.5 to 9
comic_relief
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She's not really my type, but she has a pretty face, and appears to have a nice body, from what little I can see. She doesnt appear to have big boobs, but thats not my thing anyway. I cant make a fair assessment without a close look at her ass, but I would say 7.5-8 based on the photo alone. Of course, in person, that might change.
I have a preference to exotic looking dark skinned brunette types myself though, but Im giving an unbiased opinion.
I have a preference to exotic looking dark skinned brunette types myself though, but Im giving an unbiased opinion.
women haze
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Not really my type.....I guess a 6
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
I love that face, can't really tell her body. It depends on the size of her boobs and her arse. She's looks pretty skinny. She's probably a 7 with the face. The guy looks like a queer.
kraytkiller
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Her head is turned at an angle.. Thus displaying her left ear in a more obvious light.FairShake said:
Also he even said in his post that isn't him in the pic.
I'd rate her... 7.. or 8 I guess
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.