"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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cola

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with all the hoopla about looks im starting to question my looks.. So ill be brave and post pics.
when i talk to girls i get nice ones atleast there hot to me.. Flake rate can be high sometimes but **** whos isnt?
anyways
www.tagged.com/weekendalchoholic
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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snackwitch

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cola said:
with all the hoopla about looks im starting to question my looks.. So ill be brave and post pics.
when i talk to girls i get nice ones atleast there hot to me.. Flake rate can be high sometimes but **** whos isnt?
anyways
www.tagged.com/weekendalchoholic
bathroom pics are not really the best for online dating profile, or for people to judge you. show more of your style, something like action pics where you are doing something you like ( a hobby or sport or something), out with friends or something like that. And pictures that are full profile.

And no you're not a bad looking guy. Are you hot? I dont know I dont swing that way I think whats hot to chicks has a lot to do with your attitude (swagger) and confidence. **** if anyone thinks you're hot, sexiness is mostly about attitude. Own it and who you are.

Nothing wrong with working out and keeping yourself at your best tho.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I recently found out that chicks think michael phelps is a butterface. Hell if I'd know.
 

PRMoon

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Don't ask people from a mens site if you you look hot or not. None of our opinions matter and more importantly none of us care. Believe in yourself and make sure you think you're hot and the rest of this bs will work itself out.
 

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Maxim #57 of Hotness:
You know when you're hot. How women react to your presence is fairly reliable of your attractiveness. The only exception is if you don't do anything with your style. You can look like Brad Pitt but if you dress plainly, squarely, non-descript, middle of the road, then women won't react and you may very well not know your attractiveness.
 

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you're good enough. it's not all about the looks, trust me. if it was i'd have a new g/f every other day
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I just jizzed in my pants. :rolleyes:


Dude, go to a gay forum if you want an opinion like this. Why on earth are you asking around here??
 

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What's with the retarded facial expression, you look like a monkey.
 
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