"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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cola

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with all the hoopla about looks im starting to question my looks.. So ill be brave and post pics.
when i talk to girls i get nice ones atleast there hot to me.. Flake rate can be high sometimes but **** whos isnt?
anyways
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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cola said:
with all the hoopla about looks im starting to question my looks.. So ill be brave and post pics.
when i talk to girls i get nice ones atleast there hot to me.. Flake rate can be high sometimes but **** whos isnt?
anyways
www.tagged.com/weekendalchoholic
bathroom pics are not really the best for online dating profile, or for people to judge you. show more of your style, something like action pics where you are doing something you like ( a hobby or sport or something), out with friends or something like that. And pictures that are full profile.

And no you're not a bad looking guy. Are you hot? I dont know I dont swing that way I think whats hot to chicks has a lot to do with your attitude (swagger) and confidence. **** if anyone thinks you're hot, sexiness is mostly about attitude. Own it and who you are.

Nothing wrong with working out and keeping yourself at your best tho.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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piranha45

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I recently found out that chicks think michael phelps is a butterface. Hell if I'd know.
 

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Don't ask people from a mens site if you you look hot or not. None of our opinions matter and more importantly none of us care. Believe in yourself and make sure you think you're hot and the rest of this bs will work itself out.
 

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Maxim #57 of Hotness:
You know when you're hot. How women react to your presence is fairly reliable of your attractiveness. The only exception is if you don't do anything with your style. You can look like Brad Pitt but if you dress plainly, squarely, non-descript, middle of the road, then women won't react and you may very well not know your attractiveness.
 

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you're good enough. it's not all about the looks, trust me. if it was i'd have a new g/f every other day
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I just jizzed in my pants. :rolleyes:


Dude, go to a gay forum if you want an opinion like this. Why on earth are you asking around here??
 

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What's with the retarded facial expression, you look like a monkey.
 
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