"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How high is too high a number for you?

Naughty Ninja

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How high is too high a number for you?

If you were dating a chick and she told you she's had "X" amount of sexual partners (depending on the age of chicks you'd personally date) how high a number would be too high before you decided she wasn't for you?

***You can answer with an age, age range, and or number of past sexual partners and why it would be too much.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Probably anything over 10. But I don't ever want to know the exact number. Somethings are just better left unsaid.
 

VastanVer2.0

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
Probably anything over 10. But I don't ever want to know the exact number. Somethings are just better left unsaid.
Are you kidding me? Most decent looking girls have passed that number by the time their 20.
 

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If she's disease free, clean and nice down there I don't care.

I'm of the opinion that it would be best if us men quit the concern over the "number."
 

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Only virgins. Every male wants virgins. The Bible, The Koran, The Talmud, etc. all agree with me. Basically, God is my homeboy.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BigJimbo, not sure if what you said was sarcastic. If it was, then I agree adamently. If it wasn't:

Virgins are boring and so are their unkept vag's. I like a women with AT LEAST 5 partners (some experience is all I mean by that number), so that she knows what she's getting when she meets me.

If she's screwed so many guys that she can't remember their names, or didn't learn their names before banging them, then I've got an issue.

Basically, if I am dating her and find her attractive, and if the sex is great and she's a good person whom I'm interested in keeping, why does it matter what her sexual history is? In fact, what about her history matters at all if those things are true?
 

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Up to a point (certainly beyond 10), the higher the number gets, the better at sex they are.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'd imagine that by the time she's 26, 100 is not an unreasonable #, jus sayin from my suspicions of most women, married or single. That's 52 weeks in a year over 10 or so years. She does the math for us.
 

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According to a dating website, 44% of straight people have had sex with 5 or fewer people.

Additionally, 99% of straight people have had sex with fewer than 20 people.


Granted, these are self-reporting figures, all pulled from a dating website. The population is skewed, but there are a lot of conservative people out there who believe that sex is more than just one wet tube and one hard tube put together for mutual satisfaction.

These numbers aren't likely to be terribly far off from the total population.
 

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WHO THE FU*K CARES????!!!

This is a dumb thread!

My advice is: DONT ASK! DONT TELL!!

If any of you are discussing the amount of past experiences with a girl that you're banging than you're a chump!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If a girl has a reputation of "getting around" that's the too high a number. I don't even need to know the exact number to know that she's trouble. I don't need no std's in my life.

The moment you hear of a getting being one of those girls that "gets around" I think any man of intelligence should be careful.
 

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Mantis Toboggan said:
Spoken like guy whose "game" involves offering lollipops or rides in his van.
Wow, a pure American circa 2011. Only would an American say something like that to a guy who wants a virgin. Insane. What a true pervert. Go have fun with your STD's and old mothers. Hey, have lots of fun taking care of kids that you didn't create. Remember, if you one day want a young virginal wife you are now a "pervert" in America. Yep, what American men were at one time told to want is now what perverts want.
 

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It really turns me off to know a girl already got phucked by some other dude before me if I'm interested in a relationship. My ex had been with one guy and I felt kinda dirty towards her for that.

In the American culture, sex is less meaningful than to other cultures. I'm not trying to sound AFC or anything like that, but that's the way I see it. A woman isn't worth my time if she has had multiple sex partners; it literally made me gag when some dude said 100 or something like that.

I value and like getting a girl to do things completely new to her than to have girl who knows everything or is experienced and phucks me. In fact, that 2nd option just turns me off. I rather masturbate than have sex with one of these so-called "experienced" chicks. Not to mention she could have all kinds of STD's or even AIDS.

Think about it this way: When you go buy a car you're considering as you personal vehicle, the first thing you look at is the history report to see where the car has been and people have done with it. Women are the same except there is no written record (especially the guys they phucked during vacation).

Now, unless you want the car just for racing and getting down to it then the history report doesn't really matter. I choose the first option always, though.
Anything more than two is unacceptable for an LTR. For a FB probably 4
 

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Robyn923b said:
It really turns me off to know a girl already got phucked by some other dude before me if I'm interested in a relationship. My ex had been with one guy and I felt kinda dirty towards her for that.

In the American culture, sex is less meaningful than to other cultures. I'm not trying to sound AFC or anything like that, but that's the way I see it. A woman isn't worth my time if she has had multiple sex partners; it literally made me gag when some dude said 100 or something like that.

I value and like getting a girl to do things completely new to her than to have girl who knows everything or is experienced and phucks me. In fact, that 2nd option just turns me off. I rather masturbate than have sex with one of these so-called "experienced" chicks. Not to mention she could have all kinds of STD's or even AIDS.

Think about it this way: When you go buy a car you're considering as you personal vehicle, the first thing you look at is the history report to see where the car has been and people have done with it. Women are the same except there is no written record (especially the guys they phucked during vacation).

Now, unless you want the car just for racing and getting down to it then the history report doesn't really matter. I choose the first option always, though.


and yet many clueless/ignorant guys kiss girls like that
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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