"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How high is too high a number for you?

Naughty Ninja

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How high is too high a number for you?

If you were dating a chick and she told you she's had "X" amount of sexual partners (depending on the age of chicks you'd personally date) how high a number would be too high before you decided she wasn't for you?

***You can answer with an age, age range, and or number of past sexual partners and why it would be too much.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Probably anything over 10. But I don't ever want to know the exact number. Somethings are just better left unsaid.
 

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
Probably anything over 10. But I don't ever want to know the exact number. Somethings are just better left unsaid.
Are you kidding me? Most decent looking girls have passed that number by the time their 20.
 

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If she's disease free, clean and nice down there I don't care.

I'm of the opinion that it would be best if us men quit the concern over the "number."
 

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Only virgins. Every male wants virgins. The Bible, The Koran, The Talmud, etc. all agree with me. Basically, God is my homeboy.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BigJimbo, not sure if what you said was sarcastic. If it was, then I agree adamently. If it wasn't:

Virgins are boring and so are their unkept vag's. I like a women with AT LEAST 5 partners (some experience is all I mean by that number), so that she knows what she's getting when she meets me.

If she's screwed so many guys that she can't remember their names, or didn't learn their names before banging them, then I've got an issue.

Basically, if I am dating her and find her attractive, and if the sex is great and she's a good person whom I'm interested in keeping, why does it matter what her sexual history is? In fact, what about her history matters at all if those things are true?
 

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Up to a point (certainly beyond 10), the higher the number gets, the better at sex they are.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'd imagine that by the time she's 26, 100 is not an unreasonable #, jus sayin from my suspicions of most women, married or single. That's 52 weeks in a year over 10 or so years. She does the math for us.
 

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According to a dating website, 44% of straight people have had sex with 5 or fewer people.

Additionally, 99% of straight people have had sex with fewer than 20 people.


Granted, these are self-reporting figures, all pulled from a dating website. The population is skewed, but there are a lot of conservative people out there who believe that sex is more than just one wet tube and one hard tube put together for mutual satisfaction.

These numbers aren't likely to be terribly far off from the total population.
 

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WHO THE FU*K CARES????!!!

This is a dumb thread!

My advice is: DONT ASK! DONT TELL!!

If any of you are discussing the amount of past experiences with a girl that you're banging than you're a chump!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If a girl has a reputation of "getting around" that's the too high a number. I don't even need to know the exact number to know that she's trouble. I don't need no std's in my life.

The moment you hear of a getting being one of those girls that "gets around" I think any man of intelligence should be careful.
 

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Mantis Toboggan said:
Spoken like guy whose "game" involves offering lollipops or rides in his van.
Wow, a pure American circa 2011. Only would an American say something like that to a guy who wants a virgin. Insane. What a true pervert. Go have fun with your STD's and old mothers. Hey, have lots of fun taking care of kids that you didn't create. Remember, if you one day want a young virginal wife you are now a "pervert" in America. Yep, what American men were at one time told to want is now what perverts want.
 

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It really turns me off to know a girl already got phucked by some other dude before me if I'm interested in a relationship. My ex had been with one guy and I felt kinda dirty towards her for that.

In the American culture, sex is less meaningful than to other cultures. I'm not trying to sound AFC or anything like that, but that's the way I see it. A woman isn't worth my time if she has had multiple sex partners; it literally made me gag when some dude said 100 or something like that.

I value and like getting a girl to do things completely new to her than to have girl who knows everything or is experienced and phucks me. In fact, that 2nd option just turns me off. I rather masturbate than have sex with one of these so-called "experienced" chicks. Not to mention she could have all kinds of STD's or even AIDS.

Think about it this way: When you go buy a car you're considering as you personal vehicle, the first thing you look at is the history report to see where the car has been and people have done with it. Women are the same except there is no written record (especially the guys they phucked during vacation).

Now, unless you want the car just for racing and getting down to it then the history report doesn't really matter. I choose the first option always, though.
Anything more than two is unacceptable for an LTR. For a FB probably 4
 

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Robyn923b said:
It really turns me off to know a girl already got phucked by some other dude before me if I'm interested in a relationship. My ex had been with one guy and I felt kinda dirty towards her for that.

In the American culture, sex is less meaningful than to other cultures. I'm not trying to sound AFC or anything like that, but that's the way I see it. A woman isn't worth my time if she has had multiple sex partners; it literally made me gag when some dude said 100 or something like that.

I value and like getting a girl to do things completely new to her than to have girl who knows everything or is experienced and phucks me. In fact, that 2nd option just turns me off. I rather masturbate than have sex with one of these so-called "experienced" chicks. Not to mention she could have all kinds of STD's or even AIDS.

Think about it this way: When you go buy a car you're considering as you personal vehicle, the first thing you look at is the history report to see where the car has been and people have done with it. Women are the same except there is no written record (especially the guys they phucked during vacation).

Now, unless you want the car just for racing and getting down to it then the history report doesn't really matter. I choose the first option always, though.


and yet many clueless/ignorant guys kiss girls like that
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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