"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How hard is it to get chicks that look like this for example?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This chick, I don't even see many on her level on the OLD sites anymore. Most are far uglier and fatter than this. on OLD she's be a 9 these days compared to most of the trash on there now.
Maybe when you're doing OLD in the USA. :cool:
 

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I almost think these HB7 to 7.5 are hard because they have so many guys after them. An HB9 for example many guys are scared to cold approach or ask out due to fear of rejection because she's so hot. Vs HB7 to 8 that you might think you have a shot with.
I won't forget Doctor Nerdlove's article, long time ago now, on dealing with musclebound jerks, orbiters and friends that she accumulates for being hot. It is generally believed to have such people (if not many) in her life is a no-brainer, and you'll 'have to deal with them'. Maybe sometimes it's down to how much you tolerate from them, even if they do carry many of the traits associated with the folks described in incel forums.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Most women don't have emotional intelligence or any intelligence for that matter! They're just a cluster! Reason why you don't see women inventing much stuff and they're a mess in leadership roles.
A man restores a 1970s hard drive, and I have a dad who hikes and relates historical and locale information. No matter what he's into, the man's passion for it, sometimes you have to admire- I not known many girls to give two shiney shytes about any of that. I will never forget how they behaved at my school. A teacher would takes her outside when she got too shrill or emotional (disturbing the peace won't pass muster if she's in a job and all that jazz), oblivious to the bottom line that females are females, that cannot change and perhaps school staff (specifically male) should leave off a little.
 
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She has a pretty face, nice smile/eyes, good hair and is not heavy. Her boobs are real. She is a bit broad in the chest & shoulders & the outfits all conceal her waistline.

She is pear shaped from what I can tell and her bust is small in proportion to her hips. Her fingers & toes are short & plump and her neck is shorter too. She is short waisted.

She is attractive but would never be a model or a dancer. She has a body type that will be prone to weight gain with age, distributed in the middle & hips.
 

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She has a pretty face, nice smile/eyes, good hair and is not heavy. Her boobs are real. She is a bit broad in the chest & shoulders & the outfits all conceal her waistline.

She is pear shaped from what I can tell and her bust is small in proportion to her hips. Her fingers & toes are short & plump and her neck is shorter too. She is short waisted.

She is attractive but would never be a model or a dancer. She has a body type that will be prone to weight gain with age, distributed in the middle & hips.
She is hot eh?
 

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Wow I cannot believe the media in her instagram posts. There’s a lot of hours of work in all of that. I’d revise my earlier estimation of her looks based on the new pics. She’s a solid 7.5-8.0 based on looks alone, the insta account however speaks to sho she is and what she wants from men.

The entertainment part is that she will get a guy who is handsome and well heeled to wife her up if she behaves properly.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Good find.
What she's posting (bikini photos and all that) while using a Bible verse as IG description signal hypocrisy, issues and internal confusion. :rolleyes:
 

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Wow I cannot believe the media in her instagram posts. There’s a lot of hours of work in all of that. I’d revise my earlier estimation of her looks based on the new pics. She’s a solid 7.5-8.0 based on looks alone, the insta account however speaks to sho she is and what she wants from men.

The entertainment part is that she will get a guy who is handsome and well heeled to wife her up if she behaves properly.
She looks kinda like the country music singer Annie Bosko. Cute, except Annie Bosko is more toned and slim which I find more attractive. For her age I find Annie to be a solid 9! From what I've seen Annie isn't even married.

 

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Good find.
What she's posting (bikini photos and all that) while using a Bible verse as IG description signal hypocrisy, issues and internal confusion. :rolleyes:
Actually, it signifies that she's Italian.
 

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Wow I cannot believe the media in her instagram posts. There’s a lot of hours of work in all of that. I’d revise my earlier estimation of her looks based on the new pics. She’s a solid 7.5-8.0 based on looks alone, the insta account however speaks to sho she is and what she wants from men.

The entertainment part is that she will get a guy who is handsome and well heeled to wife her up if she behaves properly.
See my above post.
 

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Her IG photos are much better than what OP posted. But some of the photos look photoshopped to elongate her legs. And she needs to be very thin to keep the look.

I think the country singer is prettier. She has a more elongated figure & will not tend to gain weight with age.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She is hot eh?
She’s solid in the looks department. Her figure is bottom heavy rather than hourglass, a pear shape as I noted in the first comment on this thread.

Agree with Pierce that she’ll find a husband (her look will appeal to the Texas country boys) but no man is going to want her flaunting her body on the internet. That will get old fast.
 

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Her IG photos are much better than what OP posted. But some of the photos look photoshopped to elongate her legs. And she needs to be very thin to keep the look.

I think the country singer is prettier. She has a more elongated figure & will not tend to gain weight with age.
I was going to say the same thing! Funny Annie was on American Idol. The thing with female singers is that there are a lot of really hot ones like Annie that are out there but like Annie never hit it big or become famous even though they're extremely hot. They're almost there but can never make it over the top despite hot looks. Yet, you see a lot of male singers who are not in the greatest shape and they become huge like country singers many of them are kinda stocky and not in Chad shape. I think in music looks alone won't make you big because it won't sell albums. If they did then you'd see someone like Annie being at the top of the Billboard list. Annie is actually 33, older than this Carli chick but I'd take Annie over her.

 

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She’s solid in the looks department. Her figure is bottom heavy rather than hourglass, a pear shape as I noted in the first comment on this thread.

Agree with Pierce that she’ll find a husband (her look will appeal to the Texas country boys) but no man is going to want her flaunting her body on the internet. That will get old fast.
Her looks will, her attitude won't. Not when the Texas boys can get a similar, less difficult (generally speaking) wasp woman.
 

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Her looks will, her attitude won't. Not when the Texas boys can get a similar, less difficult (generally speaking) wasp woman.
And that’s the whole problem right? Women who are this “go girl” or “look at me” or “I’m hot stuff” cannot compete with a more demure girl who is just as pretty. And you will not see the demure gal posting all over the internet cruising for attention.

Those girls get wifed up (hot, classy, feminine girls).
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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