"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How hard is it to get chicks that look like this for example?

I_have_BDE

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You mean to tell us that in your area 90% of 20s something girls are obese and/or with short red/blue hair? :rolleyes:

Going by the title you chose for the thread and this VV

I get the impression you're putting women on a pedestal and you've lost the frame before even starting anything. There's very little info to make an assessment, just 4 professionally done photos ...the vibe I get from the 1st and 3rd photo is that she's a masculine, boss babe. :rolleyes:
I see you're in Europa! North American girls are a lot different than Europe. A lot more processed foods over here. You have no idea the obesity epidemic that's going on in Canada and the US. Not just that but also talking about ones that are not hot. I mean, bad face, bad teeth etc.

There is a reason in so many threads you see guys talking about fat women.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The woman in the OP has a highly self-regulated sex drive and is trying to fool you (that or her handlers are) with the short shorts that smack of incongruity. Think of Jessica Simpson with her Daisy Dukes, she gives off much more of a sexual vibe than this Queen 7 does. If they are trying to act sexy but don't have sex in their eyes or emanating through their vibe, its a red flag imo.
 

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I see you're in Europa! North American girls are a lot different than Europe. A lot more processed foods over here. You have no idea the obesity epidemic that's going on in Canada and the US. Not just that but also talking about ones that are not hot. I mean, bad face, bad teeth etc.

There is a reason in so many threads you see guys talking about fat women.
Tinder, Bumble, Hinge: 8/10 women are a good 30-40 lbs overweight. So if on OLD the ratio is 30:1 imagine what that does for the hwp women’s inboxes…
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tinder, Bumble, Hinge: 9/10 women are a good 30-40 lbs overweight.
True. A lot more last 3 years. But these women if they did lose weight many would still have ugly faces and bad teeth! Before 2020 old was not prime tail but there was a ton more hotter women on old 4 years ago regardless of the site.
 

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Just say a queen 7 local news reporter in my area just joined the fb dating app. Assuming its a real profile I sent her a message. Profile said 22 years old lol. Looks like a queen 7.
 

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To me she's just average/okay looking. You guys need to understand these girls are decent looking with makeup, without makeup, they fall very flat/average in the looks department. No significantly amazing body or anything either. Doesn't look like shes very unique or has an outstanding personality either. Just your typical white girl is what i see. I wouldn't even be able to tell you what her best attribute is..

To each their own though.. not knocking it. I'm spoiled in alot of ways.
 

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Women tend to do reasonably well with emotional intelligence as they often have better social skills than men. There are few socially inept women whereas there are plenty of socially inept men.

Men tend to be stronger in terms of raw intelligence, critical thinking, and problem solving.

I agree that women are a mess in middle and upper management business roles. Some of this also depends upon the structure of the organization. Generally speaking, a business is better served with more males in middle to upper management.

Harvard and U Penn (Wharton School MBA) educated Alissa Heinerscheid was an executive level marketer who destroyed a major brand.
Emotional intelligence and social intelligence are two very different things. Women as a whole are quite lacking in emotional intelligence.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Emotional intelligence and social intelligence are two very different things.
Give me an example of this. Women seem to do well on social skills. Are you saying that women are not good at managing their own emotional responses?


 

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She's not that hot to me personally (although she is fairly attractive)

I feel like I see 100 hotter girls within an hour of leaving my house ona night out and I live in a sh1tty little UK town lol.
I sometimes wonder if my tastes in girls is just screwed up.

These are the sorts of girls I bump into non stop on nights out. I think they're hotter than the woman in the opening post, although I expect most here would definitely prefer the woman in the OP. I guess since these girls i'm posting are everywhere here, they kind of can't be that hot by definition lol (these are just random insta pics from girls who live in my town). Not even cherry picked. I could post hundreds and hundreds


But one thing I learnt from the 'post your 10' thread is that we all have massively (surprisingly so) different ideas of what makes a hot girl. Some people posted a '10' who i'd honestly rather NOT have sex with! We've also got a dude on here who goes for obese old black women. I'm not even hating on him! If that's what he's into then good on him (since they are so easy to get AND it's his ideal. Bonus!!)


But yeah, to get her is just the same answer as always. Be her type! And have enough basic social skills to not screw it up with a girl who thinks you are very hot. And for a relationship, the same, plus have some money!
 
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On facebook keep getting ads for this little women's clothing company in Austin, Texas. Anyway, I noticed their model is pretty hot, looks kinda like the yuppies you'd see on Bumble, using it for validation.

How often do you think she gets cold approached and PUA game used on her? Chicks like this the type you see going for doctors or lawyers, and chads?





I'd rate her a 7. She has no issues attracting guys. Not that hard to date as long as your SMV is equal or higher.

She would never keep my interest long term. Nice looking but nothing sexy about her.
 

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She carry's herself well, has a good sense for fashion but she looks very average, and is most likely bitter because of it, so I would expect a b!tchy personalty to coincide with her.
 

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She's not fat, but she is not in tight shape either, and has an attractive face, although not overwhelmingly so. Solid Becky - that if I saw in person, and it worked for me, would hit.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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She's not fat, but she is not in tight shape either, and has an attractive face, although not overwhelmingly so. Solid Becky - that if I saw in person, and it worked for me, would hit.
Agree. I mean she doesn't do a lot of cardio, but she's not fat, probably doesn't work out a lot but eats good so isn't fat. She has a pretty face and smile.

She's a classic Bumble validation girl. Ones who make bumble account, looks very cute but just on it to show her friends.

Before the OLD went to sh*t in 2020 you'd see this type of chick on Match. If you actually took time to write a thoughtful message you'd even get a reply and get her number.

This chick, I don't even see many on her level on the OLD sites anymore. Most are far uglier and fatter than this. on OLD she's be a 9 these days compared to most of the trash on there now.
 

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Did a reverse image search but no hits. Would be nice to know who she was. Then I could try sliding into her DMs and try PUA on her or something lol.
 

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Did a reverse image search but no hits. Would be nice to know who she was. Then I could try sliding into her DMs and try PUA on her or something lol.
Just try it in another random hot girl on Ig. Slide in her dms, use pua lines on her, and safe the results here lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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