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Don Juan
I havent seen many people on here at all... its kind of pointless to post alot of the time because nobody responds or even looks.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
How fvckin dead is this forum?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
Go on then. Rest of us are waiting for Clouds masterpeice.
You get to a point when these forums are no longer necessary to you. I will post on this.
However, You have just arrived it seems so I urge you to adapt. This is not a super forum to spend your whole day at. Pop in and pop out my friend.
Worry not, I will bring food to the table soon.
However, You have just arrived it seems so I urge you to adapt. This is not a super forum to spend your whole day at. Pop in and pop out my friend.
Worry not, I will bring food to the table soon.
I hope it continues this way.. As you said, it's starting to quiet down with less useless post... I imagine it's quite possible Cloud's new boot camp could cause a "revolution" where people start to talk about self improvement more than whine about every move they make on a girl.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The Antichrist_Star
Master Don Juan
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Talking about what you do not like is useless, changing what you do not like is priceless...
For the past 2 years i have seen the forum change, in cycles. There are cycles where you get the AFC's hoping for quick fixes right before school ends, and right before it begins. You get the don juans who kinda vanish during the school year because they just don't have time, and they also vanish during the summer.
Posting on this forum takes up a lot of time, and when you become a don juan, you don't have time to spend at a comp.
Just wait and see, early august, tons of AFCs will join then vanish in october...
You loving mother,
Vincent
Posting on this forum takes up a lot of time, and when you become a don juan, you don't have time to spend at a comp.
Just wait and see, early august, tons of AFCs will join then vanish in october...
You loving mother,
Vincent
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
THanks mom!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Don Juan
Actually I've been here for 2 years. Before this I was Cogent Ops., before that Zelemont. I took a long break and just came back.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
It seems appropriate that the forum is declining. All the information needed for becoming great is located somewhere in the archives or bible. All you need to do is look it up. As an elderly person on the site, all you can do is give referrals to posts and rehash older posts most of the time. Post that are groundbreaking are usually at a stage where most of the newbies aren't so that is why the best posts are usually ignored
Here's some advice (I know this might decline the board even moreso, but it will no doubt make a lot of better Don Juans): Only come here when you have a problem, not to read for leisure
Here's some advice (I know this might decline the board even moreso, but it will no doubt make a lot of better Don Juans): Only come here when you have a problem, not to read for leisure
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
the forum is defintly declining, i have only known aobut this site for about a week, and at that point there seemed to be a lot of people using it, i posted a question ang go a reply with in a few minutes, but in the last day or 2, i have noticed there have been very few posts.
Cloud-uk
Master Don Juan
Errr, it's Summer? Besides, I don't think the forum is declining at all. I'm doing something big, and I think there are far more quality posts than ever before, a lot of great motivational stuff too. All without the whiney newbie crap.
Give it a few weeks, the number of good posts will fall, and the amount of newbies asking age old questions will rise again as they realise that without school they have nothing to do and no friends.
Then you can say the place isn't "as good as it used to be"
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Give it a few weeks, the number of good posts will fall, and the amount of newbies asking age old questions will rise again as they realise that without school they have nothing to do and no friends.
Then you can say the place isn't "as good as it used to be"
."I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Slimijs
Senior Don Juan
All this place needs is some puzzy.
nuff said.
nuff said.
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
I too have been around this forum for about two years (in various guises) and i can't even begin to count the number of time i have read this post. Like other said, it happens in cycles first people post great posts, then they slip down the list and newbies come in and ask the same questions. All the Master dj's (from the old forum) have gone, so someone posts this about the forum being dead.
addmitedly the "golden age" is long past. but just wait.
addmitedly the "golden age" is long past. but just wait.
The Antichrist_Star
Master Don Juan
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*Yawns* oh damn... does that mean I have to start writing posts again?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.