When i talk to a girl. I always find myself worrying and holding back, because i'm afraid of going too far. Most girls think i'm weird, because i go over the top or say weird things. I just wanna know where to draw the line on that kind of stuff i've always felt like i never learned that.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How far can you go when talking to women?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
afrojiggles
Don Juan
similar thing happened to me but evaluate the gal within 5 minutes of meeting them by eliciting rapport and values then you can gues where the convo will head otherwise...if she is a low self esteem gal bail out but if she is playing along fine then i dont see why you shouldnt wham..bam her....re-evaluate your comfort zoning with the gals okay?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Start actively listening to the women you are talking to. If she is receptive and responds positively you are on the right track and you can gradually escalate. If she begins to rebuff the subject tract then change the route.
This is why I am not a proponent of canned lines and rehearsed routines; it cripples you to a limited number of conversational tracks in which to travel. Guys following this method often wind up at a dead end or flipped over, wheels up in a ditch somewhere.
This is why I am not a proponent of canned lines and rehearsed routines; it cripples you to a limited number of conversational tracks in which to travel. Guys following this method often wind up at a dead end or flipped over, wheels up in a ditch somewhere.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Serialized3
Master Don Juan
How far can you go when talking to women?
All the way to the bedroom, little man!
All the way to the bedroom, little man!