"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How far can you go when talking to women?

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When i talk to a girl. I always find myself worrying and holding back, because i'm afraid of going too far. Most girls think i'm weird, because i go over the top or say weird things. I just wanna know where to draw the line on that kind of stuff i've always felt like i never learned that.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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similar thing happened to me but evaluate the gal within 5 minutes of meeting them by eliciting rapport and values then you can gues where the convo will head otherwise...if she is a low self esteem gal bail out but if she is playing along fine then i dont see why you shouldnt wham..bam her....re-evaluate your comfort zoning with the gals okay?
 
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Start actively listening to the women you are talking to. If she is receptive and responds positively you are on the right track and you can gradually escalate. If she begins to rebuff the subject tract then change the route.

This is why I am not a proponent of canned lines and rehearsed routines; it cripples you to a limited number of conversational tracks in which to travel. Guys following this method often wind up at a dead end or flipped over, wheels up in a ditch somewhere.
 
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I want my conversation skills to be amazing. So i can sweep the girl away with an awesome funny enjoyable conversation, but people say i "over do it" and i'm guessing i say the wrong thing
 
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Hey Noob i read that book, and i thought it was all about questions and interviews. Well i read some of it. What else does the book have to offer?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How far can you go when talking to women?

All the way to the bedroom, little man!
 
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