"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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When i talk to a girl. I always find myself worrying and holding back, because i'm afraid of going too far. Most girls think i'm weird, because i go over the top or say weird things. I just wanna know where to draw the line on that kind of stuff i've always felt like i never learned that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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similar thing happened to me but evaluate the gal within 5 minutes of meeting them by eliciting rapport and values then you can gues where the convo will head otherwise...if she is a low self esteem gal bail out but if she is playing along fine then i dont see why you shouldnt wham..bam her....re-evaluate your comfort zoning with the gals okay?
 
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Start actively listening to the women you are talking to. If she is receptive and responds positively you are on the right track and you can gradually escalate. If she begins to rebuff the subject tract then change the route.

This is why I am not a proponent of canned lines and rehearsed routines; it cripples you to a limited number of conversational tracks in which to travel. Guys following this method often wind up at a dead end or flipped over, wheels up in a ditch somewhere.
 
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I want my conversation skills to be amazing. So i can sweep the girl away with an awesome funny enjoyable conversation, but people say i "over do it" and i'm guessing i say the wrong thing
 
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Hey Noob i read that book, and i thought it was all about questions and interviews. Well i read some of it. What else does the book have to offer?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How far can you go when talking to women?

All the way to the bedroom, little man!
 
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