"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I met a great girl through friends, she broke up with her boyfriends two weeks before I met her. I am unsure if she's ready for another guy, but I know that she likes me.

I've invited her for coffee had a great time, and also invited her to the restaurant even had a better time. I am just unsure of when to escalate, i've been slowly escalating a little more at every meeting, but I don't think it's enough.

Any advice, I haven't really qualified her that much, and maybe she just doesn't know that I like her, i've been looking for signs for a kissing opportunity, but I haven't really seen any. I can't really just go for the kiss, and next this girl if she doesn't go for it, because I met her through friends.

I've been playing a little bit of ****y & funny, and she's to be eating it up. I'm also a natural when it comes to story telling, and she really enjoys that. On a side note i've been seeing her for three weeks now..

This girl is a serious HB10, got a great personality, and is intelligent. I've been looking for flaws, but I don't see any..

Everytime I say that I want to see her, and schedule a meeting she comes so I think it's a good sign..

EDIT: hitted submit by accident before I could write the title properly...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sounds like one itis to me.
 
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Yep because liking someone automaticaly gives you a one itis. I can live without her, I know that their a lot of great girls out there.
 
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Well, since you confirmed my suspicions were wrong; its time for my advice: as far as escalation goes bring her down to your house or somewhere else where you can be alone (park maybe?) and continue kino there.
 
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Already done that, she keeps **** testing me when I try to kino her, because she just broke up with her boyfriend of three years.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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