"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I met a great girl through friends, she broke up with her boyfriends two weeks before I met her. I am unsure if she's ready for another guy, but I know that she likes me.

I've invited her for coffee had a great time, and also invited her to the restaurant even had a better time. I am just unsure of when to escalate, i've been slowly escalating a little more at every meeting, but I don't think it's enough.

Any advice, I haven't really qualified her that much, and maybe she just doesn't know that I like her, i've been looking for signs for a kissing opportunity, but I haven't really seen any. I can't really just go for the kiss, and next this girl if she doesn't go for it, because I met her through friends.

I've been playing a little bit of ****y & funny, and she's to be eating it up. I'm also a natural when it comes to story telling, and she really enjoys that. On a side note i've been seeing her for three weeks now..

This girl is a serious HB10, got a great personality, and is intelligent. I've been looking for flaws, but I don't see any..

Everytime I say that I want to see her, and schedule a meeting she comes so I think it's a good sign..

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sounds like one itis to me.
 
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Yep because liking someone automaticaly gives you a one itis. I can live without her, I know that their a lot of great girls out there.
 
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Well, since you confirmed my suspicions were wrong; its time for my advice: as far as escalation goes bring her down to your house or somewhere else where you can be alone (park maybe?) and continue kino there.
 
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Already done that, she keeps **** testing me when I try to kino her, because she just broke up with her boyfriend of three years.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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