"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stéphane

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I met a great girl through friends, she broke up with her boyfriends two weeks before I met her. I am unsure if she's ready for another guy, but I know that she likes me.

I've invited her for coffee had a great time, and also invited her to the restaurant even had a better time. I am just unsure of when to escalate, i've been slowly escalating a little more at every meeting, but I don't think it's enough.

Any advice, I haven't really qualified her that much, and maybe she just doesn't know that I like her, i've been looking for signs for a kissing opportunity, but I haven't really seen any. I can't really just go for the kiss, and next this girl if she doesn't go for it, because I met her through friends.

I've been playing a little bit of ****y & funny, and she's to be eating it up. I'm also a natural when it comes to story telling, and she really enjoys that. On a side note i've been seeing her for three weeks now..

This girl is a serious HB10, got a great personality, and is intelligent. I've been looking for flaws, but I don't see any..

Everytime I say that I want to see her, and schedule a meeting she comes so I think it's a good sign..

EDIT: hitted submit by accident before I could write the title properly...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sounds like one itis to me.
 

Stéphane

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Yep because liking someone automaticaly gives you a one itis. I can live without her, I know that their a lot of great girls out there.
 

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Well, since you confirmed my suspicions were wrong; its time for my advice: as far as escalation goes bring her down to your house or somewhere else where you can be alone (park maybe?) and continue kino there.
 

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Already done that, she keeps **** testing me when I try to kino her, because she just broke up with her boyfriend of three years.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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