dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
you look like you suck on wieners.
you said criticism is welcome...
you said criticism is welcome...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How does this look??
- Thread starter Daniel1099
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Scars
Master Don Juan
Or they may be thinking wow, this guy is so insecure and un-confident in himself that he has to resort to getting with ugly girls because he's too afraid to go after the hott ones.CaptainJ said:
Look at Daniel1099's 'competition' in pic 2. You could be wearing almost anything and come across more favorably. Pink is a great color that only some can pull off. All this nonsense about fit of the shirt is a joke. That is what chicks think about on their own outfits and a lot of them can't get it right.
Daniel1099 - don't work out at all. In fact lose as much weight as possible, but wear 'cool' layers and lots of scarves and accessories and you will have 'em kicking and scratching to get ya!
Are you effen? I mean seriously, are you effen. Those pic's are straight outta some men's fashion magazines from Europe with 15 year old 110 lb. male models adorning the pages - and nobody dresses like that. I am a bloody fashionista to the core, and I would never dream of wearing anything like that or all those accessories, especially a scarf unless I where on 'a tour' of the gay district... Gotta love all the experts you can catch wisdom from around here! You probably drool watching male runway shows and all that outlandish BS thinking, boy oh boy, can't wait to layer in that cardigan with that scarf!!!saturos said:Allow me to give you some style inspiration. Whether or not you like the outfit, these men are undoubtebly stylish.
Daniel1099 - don't work out at all. In fact lose as much weight as possible, but wear 'cool' layers and lots of scarves and accessories and you will have 'em kicking and scratching to get ya!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Daniel1099
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i love your sarcasm haha
Uh...no? Who pissed in your cheerios? I said the men were stylish. You might disagree, but i'd like you to post a pic of yourself and your "fashionista" sense for us. And lol, what do you have against scarves? Are you some little kid who automatically associates scarves with gay people? It seems to me more like an issue of you not having the confidence to wear a scarf on your own, and regardless, you have a lot to learn if you automatically call people fags if they do things you don't like.R19 said:
And clearly, you have never been to New York City., Japan, or Korea. People dress quite similarly quite often.
Again, i never said to hang out.Scars said:
Maybe i misinterpreted, but it seems to me that if some random average chick came up to you, you would blow them off. You should be friendly, but i'm not suggesting you invite them over or something.
Hmmm...
there are a few things you can work on
that hairstyle is normally associated with d-bags, don't follow the common trend becuase being quiet honest i think it looks shocking and lacks orginality. Those aviators also don't suit your face shape sorry, try find a better fitting pair. And pretty much what everyone else said about the shirt
there are a few things you can work on
that hairstyle is normally associated with d-bags, don't follow the common trend becuase being quiet honest i think it looks shocking and lacks orginality. Those aviators also don't suit your face shape sorry, try find a better fitting pair. And pretty much what everyone else said about the shirt
Yep, that's my fashion template... Harajuku Girls and Kanye West. BTW expert, spent a few years on the rock they call Manhattan. I was thoroughly unimpressed by the prevalence of the preppy look. I saw a lot of sh1tty prep looks in NYC. Go to Europe and you'll see plenty of guys dressed like your pics and lots of scarves. Where I live now probably has more gay population than the total population of where most people on this forum live. The district is completely integrated because some of the hottest straight nightlife can be found in the same hood. I don't really see guys of any stripes dressing with layers and accessories up the @#%, but maybe I don't hang in the right circles for your look. So it was really an uncalled for insult to them, not you.saturos said:
I am red-lined because the same mentality guy as you will post a thread about this and that HB8, HB9, HB10 and it is that to them in their own mind, not reality... So how would their comments in dealing with a true HB5, HB6, HB7 be relevant to anyone???
Post pic's? The world is smaller than you think so it's not gonna happen.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.