dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
you look like you suck on wieners.
you said criticism is welcome...
you said criticism is welcome...
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Or they may be thinking wow, this guy is so insecure and un-confident in himself that he has to resort to getting with ugly girls because he's too afraid to go after the hott ones.CaptainJ said:Ermm... A DJ treats all girls equally. The ugly, the hot, the normal, the nerdy etc. A player will disregard and ignore every girl apart from the ones he thinks he has a chance to fvck. Shallow and superficial. Treat all girls like they are hot mommas, and they will all fall head over heels for you. You will become a prize with a lot of competition for you. If the hot girl you're gaming sees you flirting with an ugly or normal girl, she's gonna become insanely jealous and think "What has that ugly girl got that I haven't? I need to try harder."
Keep that in mind.
Are you effen? I mean seriously, are you effen. Those pic's are straight outta some men's fashion magazines from Europe with 15 year old 110 lb. male models adorning the pages - and nobody dresses like that. I am a bloody fashionista to the core, and I would never dream of wearing anything like that or all those accessories, especially a scarf unless I where on 'a tour' of the gay district... Gotta love all the experts you can catch wisdom from around here! You probably drool watching male runway shows and all that outlandish BS thinking, boy oh boy, can't wait to layer in that cardigan with that scarf!!!saturos said:Allow me to give you some style inspiration. Whether or not you like the outfit, these men are undoubtebly stylish.
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Uh...no? Who pissed in your cheerios? I said the men were stylish. You might disagree, but i'd like you to post a pic of yourself and your "fashionista" sense for us. And lol, what do you have against scarves? Are you some little kid who automatically associates scarves with gay people? It seems to me more like an issue of you not having the confidence to wear a scarf on your own, and regardless, you have a lot to learn if you automatically call people fags if they do things you don't like.R19 said:Are you effen? I mean seriously, are you effen. Those pic's are straight outta some men's fashion magazines from Europe with 15 year old 110 lb. male models adorning the pages - and nobody dresses like that. I am a bloody fashionista to the core, and I would never dream of wearing anything like that or all those accessories, especially a scarf unless I where on 'a tour' of the gay district... Gotta love all the experts you can catch wisdom from around here! You probably drool watching male runway shows and all that outlandish BS thinking, boy oh boy, can't wait to layer in that cardigan with that scarf!!!
Again, i never said to hang out.Scars said:Why would I invest any of my time in somebody I have no intention or interest in being in a relationship or friendship with?
Yep, that's my fashion template... Harajuku Girls and Kanye West. BTW expert, spent a few years on the rock they call Manhattan. I was thoroughly unimpressed by the prevalence of the preppy look. I saw a lot of sh1tty prep looks in NYC. Go to Europe and you'll see plenty of guys dressed like your pics and lots of scarves. Where I live now probably has more gay population than the total population of where most people on this forum live. The district is completely integrated because some of the hottest straight nightlife can be found in the same hood. I don't really see guys of any stripes dressing with layers and accessories up the @#%, but maybe I don't hang in the right circles for your look. So it was really an uncalled for insult to them, not you.saturos said:And clearly, you have never been to New York City., Japan, or Korea. People dress quite similarly quite often.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.