I posted something else about this situation but heres a general question. This girl that i kind of like (shes told me she likes me and stuff) went out two days ago we went to a nhl game. we had a good time. after the game when i was leaving i was like ill talk to you later this week she was like yea call me. I didnt give her a hug or anything though. A couple of weeks before when i initally ran into her i kissed her and stuff at a bar no long make out session or anything just couple kiss on the lips (drunk). after that night i tried to call her twice. she answered but kind of dissed me. then she called me up to go to the game after like 2 weeks of not talking at all.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
how does this come off to a girl that you are interested in?
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