"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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how does this come off to a girl that you are interested in?

aix237

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I posted something else about this situation but heres a general question. This girl that i kind of like (shes told me she likes me and stuff) went out two days ago we went to a nhl game. we had a good time. after the game when i was leaving i was like ill talk to you later this week she was like yea call me. I didnt give her a hug or anything though. A couple of weeks before when i initally ran into her i kissed her and stuff at a bar no long make out session or anything just couple kiss on the lips (drunk). after that night i tried to call her twice. she answered but kind of dissed me. then she called me up to go to the game after like 2 weeks of not talking at all.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ethnomethodologist

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awww, she misses you...

Now stop being a little b1tch and learn something. We can't do the work for you...

What were you trying to do by not doing anything? Just trying to be friendly?

You already know the answer, so stop being a wussy...

Stop being a wussy
Stop being a wussy

Oh I didn't hug her or anything, how the hell are we supposed to judge? Were you preoccupied, or just too much of a wussy to do anything?

A few weeks ago you kissed her and stuff when you were drunk... than she invites you to a game. You go along with her since you had no other plans, than you come on here and ask us what we think she is thinking... we think that she thinks that you are being a wussy

She would laugh if she thought you were asking this question...

Next time you see her, humiliate yourself and become humble to learning by telling her you were conerned about what she thought of you. You asked some friends what they thought about you not hugging at all... Know what she's going to do then?

She's going to go "awww, that's so sweet" then she's going to give you a hug.
 
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