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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

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how does this come off to a girl that you are interested in?

aix237

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I posted something else about this situation but heres a general question. This girl that i kind of like (shes told me she likes me and stuff) went out two days ago we went to a nhl game. we had a good time. after the game when i was leaving i was like ill talk to you later this week she was like yea call me. I didnt give her a hug or anything though. A couple of weeks before when i initally ran into her i kissed her and stuff at a bar no long make out session or anything just couple kiss on the lips (drunk). after that night i tried to call her twice. she answered but kind of dissed me. then she called me up to go to the game after like 2 weeks of not talking at all.
 

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awww, she misses you...

Now stop being a little b1tch and learn something. We can't do the work for you...

What were you trying to do by not doing anything? Just trying to be friendly?

You already know the answer, so stop being a wussy...

Stop being a wussy
Stop being a wussy

Oh I didn't hug her or anything, how the hell are we supposed to judge? Were you preoccupied, or just too much of a wussy to do anything?

A few weeks ago you kissed her and stuff when you were drunk... than she invites you to a game. You go along with her since you had no other plans, than you come on here and ask us what we think she is thinking... we think that she thinks that you are being a wussy

She would laugh if she thought you were asking this question...

Next time you see her, humiliate yourself and become humble to learning by telling her you were conerned about what she thought of you. You asked some friends what they thought about you not hugging at all... Know what she's going to do then?

She's going to go "awww, that's so sweet" then she's going to give you a hug.
 
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