SeymourCake
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
the alpha response is not to feed her ego. she's the same person either way. they're both responsible for their own actions.GettinMyMindRight said:So, is this behavior on a woman's part...
A) the man's fault for being so Beta/nice guy
OR
B) just a devious woman being who she is
I mean, can we honestly say that an Alpha male wouldn't eventualy get beaten down by an evil cvnt like this?
Both. Her fault for being a cunt and his for being a wussy beta who cries daily for three weeks straight over a 5/10 and can't stand up to her even though she looks like a stiff, Nazi-saluting breeze would knock her over.GettinMyMindRight said:So, is this behavior on a woman's part...
A) the man's fault for being so Beta/nice guy
OR
B) just a devious woman being who she is
I mean, can we honestly say that an Alpha male wouldn't eventualy get beaten down by an evil cvnt like this?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
My guess is this is fake, just from the way it is written.GettinMyMindRight said:A) the man's fault for being so Beta/nice guy
OR
B) just a devious woman being who she is
I mean, can we honestly say that an Alpha male wouldn't eventualy get beaten down by an evil cvnt like this?