SeymourCake
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How does the SoSuave community respond to this?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
sylvester the cat
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Good. This should be a sticky for all new-comers to read as a warning.
Plus she's a 5 at best.
Plus she's a 5 at best.
No.Danny
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Lmfao
:crackup:
:crackup:
Meisterman
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Lol
TheMonkeyKing
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This prose doesn't sound that authentic. It actually sounds like it could have been the embittered bf, talking in the third person.
A pretty decent psychoanalysis though; some people just do sh!t because they want to; without rhyme nor reason.
He got away with one though; she did him a favour. She'll be way more average by the time she's in her twenties with two kids, which will inevitably happen. Looks like she's got that kinda constitution that means she gets out of shape real easy.
A pretty decent psychoanalysis though; some people just do sh!t because they want to; without rhyme nor reason.
He got away with one though; she did him a favour. She'll be way more average by the time she's in her twenties with two kids, which will inevitably happen. Looks like she's got that kinda constitution that means she gets out of shape real easy.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
VladPatton
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I doubt it's real. It would be pretty self incriminating for her to put that up on her social lifeline known as Facebook. There would be more than one female friend of hers who would protest such behavior and it would start a fire. That chumpdiggity mofo could of made that account.
If if is true, then that's one truly sociopathic cünt! Always reserve some sort of barrier where you let no one in to protect you from such happenings. Your mom should touch such emotions, that's about it. Never be so called "unconditional", what the fück are you, a dog?? Reserve a switch that clicks to Cold Mode when a girl fücks you over, and never turn into a poor sap like that chump that has the integrity of a soft turd in a rain storm. What the fück happened to men in the last 30 years, damn.
That link is a good shock and awe primer for the noobs, though.
If if is true, then that's one truly sociopathic cünt! Always reserve some sort of barrier where you let no one in to protect you from such happenings. Your mom should touch such emotions, that's about it. Never be so called "unconditional", what the fück are you, a dog?? Reserve a switch that clicks to Cold Mode when a girl fücks you over, and never turn into a poor sap like that chump that has the integrity of a soft turd in a rain storm. What the fück happened to men in the last 30 years, damn.
That link is a good shock and awe primer for the noobs, though.
Tictac
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IF this is real, she's a simple narcissist.
christoff522
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My simple response is: who cares?
She obviously had no respect for him, and he had no respect for himself, by the time the relationship ended she hated him, didn't care, game over.
She obviously had no respect for him, and he had no respect for himself, by the time the relationship ended she hated him, didn't care, game over.
Guys i think were missing the larger point here..
That this is all the liberal feminists fault! Our society is collapsing because of women like this and we as real men must unite and publicly shame her and her kind!
Amiright or amiright?
That this is all the liberal feminists fault! Our society is collapsing because of women like this and we as real men must unite and publicly shame her and her kind!
Amiright or amiright?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
narcissist
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Longest fart noise ever.
Haven't you got the memo? People suck
Posts like this dont surprise me at all, and it the dudes fault for being a beta in a harsh world.
And yes, the woman is a cold hearted b*tch but no alpha would put himself in a situation to get himself blasted like that from an hb5 narcissistic c*nt bag.
The signs were there. He should have kept her around as a f*ck buddy/replaceable plate max. And watched out that he didnt get attached by fcking other girls. His mistake was dating her to begin with.
Ps. It's probably fake
Haven't you got the memo? People suck
Posts like this dont surprise me at all, and it the dudes fault for being a beta in a harsh world.
And yes, the woman is a cold hearted b*tch but no alpha would put himself in a situation to get himself blasted like that from an hb5 narcissistic c*nt bag.
The signs were there. He should have kept her around as a f*ck buddy/replaceable plate max. And watched out that he didnt get attached by fcking other girls. His mistake was dating her to begin with.
Ps. It's probably fake
IBreatheSpears
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Both. Her fault for being a cunt and his for being a wussy beta who cries daily for three weeks straight over a 5/10 and can't stand up to her even though she looks like a stiff, Nazi-saluting breeze would knock her over.GettinMyMindRight said:
"I was his jewbaby"
Ha!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Greasy Pig
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I'm willing to bet it was written by her ex.
zekko
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My guess is this is fake, just from the way it is written.GettinMyMindRight said:
But if it's real, the guy is obviously a chump, and he is getting some badly needed real life experience.
In the so-called alpha's case, once the girl cheated on him, or dumped him, he would have accepted that it was over and moved on with dignity.
If that was me and my ex said this crap on fb..next time i saw her @ss..id prolly knock her the **** out. It would be worth the court fees to teach this bich a lil lesson:box:
People shouldnt be this cruel to others but when they are..they should be punished.
People shouldnt be this cruel to others but when they are..they should be punished.