Tdawg
Don Juan
Good....keep it that way
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How does one trust again?
- Thread starter Craig Dates
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MrAddiction
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A woman says “I love you” but means “I love you for...”:
what you do to me, give to me and how you make me feel.
At the same time she reinforces you to keep on doing that stuff or even more. It’s like dogtraining.
If these things are gone her so called love is gone too.
It’s basically more like a guy saying “I like that you are able to do this and that” ....and even that is ment more honorable than an “I love you” from a woman.