"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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how does one become good/succesful with women?

OddManOut85

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how? how does one become the player type? or just good with women? i think most guys want a solid,stable gf? correct me if you feel i am wrong.its like,thats what plauged me for the past few years.i see everyone else doing it,whats wrong with me? what have you done to change? whats worked for you and such? im interested in anything you have to say.cold approaches? relying on good looks? the right attitude? i must say,i have had a rather negative attitude.i mean,is it ever not soon enough? confidence? knowing the right people? popularity? what? what has worked for you?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Most of us read the DJ Bible... :rolleyes:
 

KoalaKing

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Being confident within yourself, working on your weaknesses and fixing them, studying guys who are successful with woman, learning how to handle rejection when it happens, enjoying your life at all times, doing what you want to do and not what your parents and anyone else says that you should be doing, and live within your own personal moralistic values, have a dream within your mind and go out and make it happen, expect success and it will come to you, expect to fail and you will. :D
 
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