"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how does one become good/succesful with women?

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how? how does one become the player type? or just good with women? i think most guys want a solid,stable gf? correct me if you feel i am wrong.its like,thats what plauged me for the past few years.i see everyone else doing it,whats wrong with me? what have you done to change? whats worked for you and such? im interested in anything you have to say.cold approaches? relying on good looks? the right attitude? i must say,i have had a rather negative attitude.i mean,is it ever not soon enough? confidence? knowing the right people? popularity? what? what has worked for you?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Most of us read the DJ Bible... :rolleyes:
 
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Being confident within yourself, working on your weaknesses and fixing them, studying guys who are successful with woman, learning how to handle rejection when it happens, enjoying your life at all times, doing what you want to do and not what your parents and anyone else says that you should be doing, and live within your own personal moralistic values, have a dream within your mind and go out and make it happen, expect success and it will come to you, expect to fail and you will. :D
 
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