"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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how does one become good/succesful with women?

OddManOut85

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how? how does one become the player type? or just good with women? i think most guys want a solid,stable gf? correct me if you feel i am wrong.its like,thats what plauged me for the past few years.i see everyone else doing it,whats wrong with me? what have you done to change? whats worked for you and such? im interested in anything you have to say.cold approaches? relying on good looks? the right attitude? i must say,i have had a rather negative attitude.i mean,is it ever not soon enough? confidence? knowing the right people? popularity? what? what has worked for you?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Most of us read the DJ Bible... :rolleyes:
 

KoalaKing

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Being confident within yourself, working on your weaknesses and fixing them, studying guys who are successful with woman, learning how to handle rejection when it happens, enjoying your life at all times, doing what you want to do and not what your parents and anyone else says that you should be doing, and live within your own personal moralistic values, have a dream within your mind and go out and make it happen, expect success and it will come to you, expect to fail and you will. :D
 
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