"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How does it FEEL knowing women don't care about YOU

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How does it feel knowing women don't care about your looks, your game, your DJ Bible, your new haircut, your money, your quote worthy post knowing that MANY BETTER men are only a branch swing away...if they even give you the time of day in the FIRST place?

Face it you can't stop from NEEDING them any way you look at it.


Women>>>>>YOU.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What have you been sniffing, Bumsniff?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Meh. I don't need others' approval.

I don't think a healthy adult does by definition.

If people slight me, it doesn't bother me in the long term.
 

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It's not true that women don't care about those things (minus the board posting part)... The problem is, it's ALL they care about. I'd add status in there, though.

*****es are shallow, man. Back in the "blue pill" days, I did all these things to attract women and be accepted by the guys, but while it worked, it's ALL they were interested in. My thought pattern went: if I acquire and do all these things, women will be interested, and want to get know me, and fall in love happy funtime. I just need to get noticed first.

Bzzzzt... wrong. All they cared about was the looks / body, sports car, flashy attaire, social skills / status, and other material possessions. A good 95% were only interested in no-strings sex (despite having an SO), or to prance around with someone who has nice ****, or because they THOUGHT I had a lot of money. They were all about the "fake" **** - even insofar as having rediculously high interest when they thought I was high class and in-demand - to none once they got to know me, and realized the truth. They also assumed that I was a bad boy player, and would be willing to let them cheat on their SO without consequence. They don't care if they cheat, and IME, initiate and instigate it 100% of the time. That's why they get with bad boys for no-strings sex - which they seek after, btw.

It's all or nothing to a lot of these *****es, and most of their desires are fleeting. They care if you're hot, but only to have sex with you. You're the best thing evar - then they can't stand you once their infatuation wears off. And so on.

I've just learned to accept it and adapt... not take it seriously, and realize it's just a game for the most part.
 

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floydb25 said:
It's not true that women don't care about those things (minus the board posting part)... The problem is, it's ALL they care about. I'd add status in there, though.

*****es are shallow 100% True

All they cared about was the looks / body, sports car, flashy attaire, social skills / status, and other material possessions. A good 95% were only interested in no-strings sex (despite having an SO), or to prance around with someone who has nice ****, or because they THOUGHT I had a lot of money. They were all about the "fake" **** - even insofar as having rediculously high interest when they thought I was high class and in-demand - to none once they got to know me, and realized the truth.

if you really understand how women operate you will stay a million mile away of them but our instincts (not just sex but our huge value of love and because men are capable of love that women have no idea about and 95% of women or maybe more from my experience don't know a sh!t about real love and how it is )

I've just learned to accept it and adapt... not take it seriously, and realize it's just a game for the most part.

Its really a game you have to know to play or you will get played by
you know what are you talking about man . I respect that
 

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Bumsniff said:
How does it feel knowing women don't care about your looks, your game, your DJ Bible, your new haircut, your money, your quote worthy post knowing that MANY BETTER men are only a branch swing away...if they even give you the time of day in the FIRST place?

Face it you can't stop from NEEDING them any way you look at it.


Women>>>>>YOU.

women care about your money and high status, no matter who you are and how you look, lets not get it twisted.
 

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Fatal Jay said:
women care about your money and high status, no matter who you are and how you look, lets not get it twisted.
i won't disagree with you in this women care about fat bank accounts more than anything because of future security and other things but personally i don't got money i only got looks and a manly character with a sense of humor who don't take this life too seriously i consider this life a journey so i have as much fun as i can and literally i just BE ..... maybe that works for me now because i'm still young or maybe because i'm very picky when it comes to girls and acquaintances in general but i'm sure that i will have money one day in the near future so we will see .
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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women care about money more then looks

the majority if not all of women will get with rich Donald trump before they get with homeless brad pitt

and that is truth
 

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floydb25 said:
It's not true that women don't care about those things (minus the board posting part)... The problem is, it's ALL they care about. I'd add status in there, though.

*****es are shallow, man. Back in the "blue pill" days, I did all these things to attract women and be accepted by the guys, but while it worked, it's ALL they were interested in. My thought pattern went: if I acquire and do all these things, women will be interested, and want to get know me, and fall in love happy funtime. I just need to get noticed first.

Bzzzzt... wrong. All they cared about was the looks / body, sports car, flashy attaire, social skills / status, and other material possessions. A good 95% were only interested in no-strings sex (despite having an SO), or to prance around with someone who has nice ****, or because they THOUGHT I had a lot of money. They were all about the "fake" **** - even insofar as having rediculously high interest when they thought I was high class and in-demand - to none once they got to know me, and realized the truth. They also assumed that I was a bad boy player, and would be willing to let them cheat on their SO without consequence. They don't care if they cheat, and IME, initiate and instigate it 100% of the time. That's why they get with bad boys for no-strings sex - which they seek after, btw.

It's all or nothing to a lot of these *****es, and most of their desires are fleeting. They care if you're hot, but only to have sex with you. You're the best thing evar - then they can't stand you once their infatuation wears off. And so on.

I've just learned to accept it and adapt... not take it seriously, and realize it's just a game for the most part.
You are dealing with the wrong type of woman. Acknowledge that these types of women will NEVER be happy. NOTHING will ever be satisfied. These are the types of girls who will live in a 1.1 million dollar home and be envious of the couple down the street with the 1.2 million dollar home. It's a lifestyle based on show, appearance, and status that contributes absolutely nothing to the actual love in the relationship itself.

I was married to a woman like this. We had a beautiful brand new home in the suburbs. All of her needs were met, but mine never were met. I wanted sex and an an occasional hug, she wanted another Coach bag to show off to her co-workers Monday morning. That was her version of sex. We ate at the best restaurants, had new vehicles, we dressed great. We looked pretty good on paper. Sex to me served as a power emotional connection to someone I loved. I found my wife more attractive the further we got into our relationship based on the almost spiritual connection I had to her during sex. Sex to her was something to just check off the list of things to do for your husband because you are married to him. (And don't tell me I was a lousy lay, one old girlfriend that I still talk to still mentions our great sex lol).

The truly hot girls are never that grounded. I can't think of a single one. Most are emotional trainwrecks completely detached from empathy, real emotions, and love languages...and they never change. Never think you can get HB9-10, to behave like a 5, no matter well you game them. Nothing can penetrate an already damaged core.
 

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Fatal Jay said:
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women care about money more then looks

the majority if not all of women will get with rich Donald trump before they get with homeless brad pitt

and that is truth
100% true.. i didn't say looks matter more than money i just mentioned what is working for me ATM but don't forget that the majority of women who get rich Donald trump Fvck homeless brad pitt behind his rich back because they want the whole package but the only difference is that they get it from more than one man
 

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Look, guys, women are "hardwired", by evolution, to seek out the best man she can get, so that she has the max chance of raising her kids. men cant know if any given child is theirs, so their genes are best served by having access to numbers of nubile women. so she wants the security of a man with status, money, secure, well paid job. so what? how can you blame her? if you won't protect her from having her life ruined by a pregnancy, ( by getting a vasectomy), then you can't blame her for having a " screw you and what you want from women" attitude.
 

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Bumsniff said:
How does it feel knowing women don't care about your looks, your game, your DJ Bible, your new haircut, your money, your quote worthy post knowing that MANY BETTER men are only a branch swing away...if they even give you the time of day in the FIRST place?

There's nothing I can do about it. I'm no longer worrying about getting involved in some cawk measuring contest in order to impress some b&tch.

I don't control what they're attracted to, so I don't worry about it anymore.


Face it you can't stop from NEEDING them any way you look at it.

Need them? What exactly do they do for me anyway, other than a vacation BJ sometimes lol?

Women>>>>>YOU.
So they're better than me? Um no. They just have huge egos. I have a small ego. I know that's a turn off, but too bad.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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HOw many women no how to fix a car, a plumbing or electrical problem, or computer, how to defend themselves, etc, etc? Most US women no almost nothing other than how to bs other women and how to "shop". My "k" is sticcig. sorry. women need men a HELLUVA lot more than men need women. remember that. they are basically helpless and of little use, unless you want one to raise your cids, which is insane, unless you are a millionaire, in US, at least.
 

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twentee said:
HOw many women no how to fix a car, a plumbing or electrical problem, or computer, how to defend themselves, etc, etc? Most US women no almost nothing other than how to bs other women and how to "shop". My "k" is sticcig. sorry. women need men a HELLUVA lot more than men need women. remember that. they are basically helpless and of little use, unless you want one to raise your cids, which is insane, unless you are a millionaire, in US, at least.
Agreed.
 

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women dont care about your tough guy internet acts. you will ONLY be a brach swing away to the better man IF she even decides to bother grasping at the flimsy twig you THINK is good enough.
 

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Women only care about the value you're giving them. Your looks, money, and status will raise her value, that grey area of attraction won't. Women look at the outside which helps them determine if they're gonna let you inside. Those are the facts.

Get equipped.
 

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Easy solution: be ready to swing branches with her.
It's all about the frame.

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If your frame is: I'm investing 100% into this woman and making it work. Oh man, i have to do everything to keep this girl. I have to keep her away from other men. I have to always have my game on. I have to keep her happy. Etc.

You'll ultimately be a mess if/when she decides you're no longer needed.

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If on the other hand your frame is: I have a relationship with the female sex (not one woman) that is continuous. If she branch swings - that's fine, i have others, or if i don't - i'll have no problem branch swinging with her. We had fun while it lasted.

I've slept with a lot of women, and might be a bit strange in my ability to feel passion for just about every woman i've been with (even a ONS.) It's a controlled passion though that i try not to give to just 1 woman. Meaning I make the relationship/interaction more important than the woman. So that if my relations with one particular woman starts to go bad - i can bring in someone to replace her without losing a moment of sleep (this is easy in theory, but i sometimes find myself remembering a few in particular.)

This really solves most issues.

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There's always going to be a guy out there:

with more money
who's better looking
with a bigger d!ck
who's better in bed
who has better game
who makes her more happy

She just hasn't found him yet, or he just doesn't want her (i absolutely know that there's women out there who want me, but i don't want them; women who'd leave the man they're with right now if i called them up and said i wanted to date them. 100% certain of this.)

But it's pretty useless to get hung up over that. In fact, it's pretty damn unhealthy.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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