“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How does Don Juan act when she calls you crying and upset?

girlsarecrazy

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My situation with this girl:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=98459

She texted me:

her: "What are you doing right now?"
me: "Fun stuff of course"
her: "I'm really upset right now. Me and my sis and my mom just got in a big fight"

I called... she didn't pick up. She said she was too upset to talk on the phone. I msg'd her online and she says:


her (10:03:37 PM): come run me over with your car please
her (10:03:40 PM): no i doo
her (10:03:46 PM): i'm not even kidding
me (10:04:04 PM): What's the argument about?
her (10:04:21 PM): my mom not letting me do ANYTHING
her (10:04:47 PM): today she wouldn't even let me drive to mcdonalds
her (10:05:02 PM): and i wanted to spend the night pver heathers .. but could i? NO
me (10:05:11 PM): did you get your grades up? why is she limiting you?
her (10:05:21 PM): i don't know
her (10:05:33 PM): because i'm a "failure at life
her (10:05:36 PM): '"
me (10:06:08 PM): she shouldn't say that to you... you need to explain to her how that makes you feel
me (10:06:42 PM): well report cards came.. did you do good?
her (10:10:53 PM): i didn't do that bad
her (10:11:02 PM): i don't even care about anything anymore
her (10:18:23 PM): what are you doing right now
me (10:18:54 PM): nothing too important.
her (10:19:24 PM): i wish you could come over
her (10:19:31 PM): would you be allowed do you think
me (10:19:56 PM): i'll ask.
her (10:22:07 PM): okay, thanks so much, it would mean alot to me
me (10:24:14 PM): She's said "i'm going to bed.. i'm not letting you out when i'm asleep"
me (10:24:33 PM): I tried begging and it just pissed her off.
her (10:24:35 PM): okay
her (10:24:44 PM): thankss tho..

I didn't know how to handle this situation... Should i have gone out of the way to see her?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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spaceman2001

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lol how old are you guys, 16?

To me nothing is more un-attractive than a girl who spills all of her problems on me. Major turn-off.
 

aftershock

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So shes crying because her mum wouldn't let her go to McDonalds.

Do you realise how stupid that sentence sounds?

Get a girl who's a bit more mature, for your own sake.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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paraguayandj

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Damn boy! you got a drama queen on your hands, unless she was ridiculuously hot i would just leave her on the side and not worry about it. Or keep your pimp hand strong in case you need it ;) Just kidding
 

Weak_Game

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yea.. highschool forums, "OMG MY LIFE IS FUKIN OVER I CANT GO TO MCDONALDS AND GET S SHAKE!!!!!!! OH GOD MY LIFE IS OVER "... jesus christ
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Brian20o2

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EWWWW! Why would anyone wanna go to McDeathBurger? But yeah, Tell her to grow up. And maybe you should to...

"me (10:24:33 PM): I tried begging and it just pissed her off."

^ This is where it reached a new low
 

00Kevin

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strange.. my gf started crying on the phone tonight. I just said, "I don't understand why you are crying?"

She was afraid that i was going to break up with her because I told her that I didn't feel like doing anything with her tonight. I just wanted to relax at home and be lazy. She started to cry because she wouldn't get another chance to see me for a few days. oh well that is her problem i guess.
 

syemour

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this girl isnt even your girlfriend. tell her to stop calling you and tell that one friend that she went to germany with to come over.

Where is her friend now? I bet when this is all said and done she is going to be having fun with that other girl and not you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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00Kevin

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I agree with syemour.

She ****en deserves the shi-t she got from her mother. You should of told her off as well. I mean what did she expect ? She most likely f-ucked around at school all year.

I would of said something like, "well grades don't matter to me because I'm looking for a housewife" :)
 

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NeonBase said:
"Oh, you seem to be in a bad mood... I'll talk to you later then" Don't entertain her immature ramblings
I agree. I have loads of drama queen friends and that's how I usually respond to them.
 
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aftershock said:
So shes crying because her mum wouldn't let her go to McDonalds.

Do you realise how stupid that sentence sounds?

Get a girl who's a bit more mature, for your own sake.
HAHAHAHAHA :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

That made my DAY!!!!!

:crackup: :crackup:
 
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