"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How does a mature man text a younger woman?

manfrombelow

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Most of the time I'm too busy to text (and I make it clear I dislike 'chatting'), but I always respond to 'good morning Sir/Kandur/my Lord & Master', because I know kittens appreciate these little social cues.
It doesn't count because here you responded to her initiated texts - not vice versa (and I was talking vice versa instances).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Solomon

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Very bad advice. Especially with the young one 18-23
Totally agree younger women text a lot, I mean a whole lot especially if they are interested.
The key to texting younger women IMO is to text them interesting stuff, if the conversation comes dull or predictable they are more likely to flake

Younger women IMO are fun to text though, I got a 23 year old right now snapping me gym selfies, it's easy to get lost in the sauce though and be thirsty I find it best to end the convo's on a high note leave them wanting more
 

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If you watch women texting they type super-fast. Their fingers are nibble on smartphone keyboards. They will text like 6 people in the same time I text 1.
 
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