"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Onion

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Let's face it. Those of us who are in LTR know or feel that she's probably is screwing or has screwed someone on the side. Because stats prove that.

It f&cks with my head every time I think about it. How do you cope with the thoughts?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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stevo

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You stop thinking about it.

She can fcuk whoever wants, just the same way you can.

Time to time, I get upset when I consider the thought that she could have fcuked someone else even if she probably didnt but again I remind myself she could do whatever she wants and I just choose to not worry about what I cannot control.

If she fcuks someone else and I know about it, she gets downgraded but I wont lose my mind over something that probably isnt even happening.

What matters is how we interact when we're together, she doing 99% of the chasing and how consistent you get to beat the pussie up.


I'm not trying to cuff her, I'm not trying to save her. I'm not making her my focus and it doesnt have to work out.


There's just too many beautiful fishes to be hung up on one beech.

Drown the afc when he tries to come up for air.
 

Lozboss

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You have to trust each other, otherwise it's a crap LTR.

If you are worried she is cheating on you then it's not a health relationship.
 

RangerMIke

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Lozboss said:
You have to trust each other, otherwise it's a crap LTR.

If you are worried she is cheating on you then it's not a health relationship.
Exactly.

But the best way to deal with it is just to not care. Just wear a condom. I really don't care if women I see are fvcking other dudes. If I'm not willing to be monogamous, I can't expect the women I date to only be with me.

My advice is to TRUST your instincts... if you think your girl is cheating on you, then she probably is and you need to get out of that relationship or just go ahead and be open about it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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