How do you?

[Onion]

Let's face it. Those of us who are in LTR know or feel that she's probably is screwing or has screwed someone on the side. Because stats prove that.

It f&cks with my head every time I think about it. How do you cope with the thoughts?

 

[stevo]

You stop thinking about it.

She can fcuk whoever wants, just the same way you can.

Time to time, I get upset when I consider the thought that she could have fcuked someone else even if she probably didnt but again I remind myself she could do whatever she wants and I just choose to not worry about what I cannot control.

If she fcuks someone else and I know about it, she gets downgraded but I wont lose my mind over something that probably isnt even happening.

What matters is how we interact when we're together, she doing 99% of the chasing and how consistent you get to beat the pussie up.


I'm not trying to cuff her, I'm not trying to save her. I'm not making her my focus and it doesnt have to work out.


There's just too many beautiful fishes to be hung up on one beech.

Drown the afc when he tries to come up for air.

 

[logicallefty]

Could also try my "scratch and sniff" test on her snatcharoo. :crackup:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=217034

 

[Lozboss]

You have to trust each other, otherwise it's a crap LTR.

If you are worried she is cheating on you then it's not a health relationship.

 

[RangerMIke]

You have to trust each other, otherwise it's a crap LTR.

If you are worried she is cheating on you then it's not a health relationship.

Exactly.

But the best way to deal with it is just to not care. Just wear a condom. I really don't care if women I see are fvcking other dudes. If I'm not willing to be monogamous, I can't expect the women I date to only be with me.

My advice is to TRUST your instincts... if you think your girl is cheating on you, then she probably is and you need to get out of that relationship or just go ahead and be open about it.