"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how do you work with girls with no sense of humor?

duke104

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i met this girl about a month ago and im naturally sarcastic when talking to girls so ive been using a lot of ****y funny stuff with her. shes the first girl ive ever come across that actually gets pissed off when i tease her. shes definitely an attractive girl so she naturally has that ****y/confident attitude, but ive never received such cold responses before. any other girl would laugh about it and tease me back but her typical response is "whatever". is there a way i can work with this or should i just drop it and move on to another girl?
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

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kingsam

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kick her to the curb....its a VERY bad personality trait...she likely see things much more negatively...get pissed off easier...when times are hard most people can have a laugh with each other and overcome these problems - this girl wont be able to!

OP any idea what her sense of humour is then??
 

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Give her a nickel and tell her to buy a personality then drop her. I cant stand the ****ing *****s who can't take a joke or two. Women think they can get away with just their looks and let their personality stagnate.

Generally women don't have a sense of humor. They can laugh at funny men but they are generally very bad at being funny themselves... except fat chicks for some reason.
 

Allurre

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Don't try suck up and appease to her.

If she has a dry humor, don't blame it on yourself. It's her own personal issues.

Get her to make it up to you for being so boring and uncool.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

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