"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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how do you work with girls with no sense of humor?

duke104

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i met this girl about a month ago and im naturally sarcastic when talking to girls so ive been using a lot of ****y funny stuff with her. shes the first girl ive ever come across that actually gets pissed off when i tease her. shes definitely an attractive girl so she naturally has that ****y/confident attitude, but ive never received such cold responses before. any other girl would laugh about it and tease me back but her typical response is "whatever". is there a way i can work with this or should i just drop it and move on to another girl?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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kingsam

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kick her to the curb....its a VERY bad personality trait...she likely see things much more negatively...get pissed off easier...when times are hard most people can have a laugh with each other and overcome these problems - this girl wont be able to!

OP any idea what her sense of humour is then??
 

ATP

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Give her a nickel and tell her to buy a personality then drop her. I cant stand the ****ing *****s who can't take a joke or two. Women think they can get away with just their looks and let their personality stagnate.

Generally women don't have a sense of humor. They can laugh at funny men but they are generally very bad at being funny themselves... except fat chicks for some reason.
 

Allurre

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Don't try suck up and appease to her.

If she has a dry humor, don't blame it on yourself. It's her own personal issues.

Get her to make it up to you for being so boring and uncool.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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