How do you word the home>movie>sex invintation

[sosousage]

Will "do you want come to me watch a movie" do?


Or maybe other text will bring more success?

 

[djthiago1]

In my experience, having at least 2 dates in increases your odds by 79%

 

[sosousage]

It's not the question. You can ask it any way you want to. The answer you get to that question is going to depend on the groundwork leading up to it.

Last summer I hit a woman up through FB, texted back and forth a bit and threw in a few phone calls, and worked up asking her to spend the entire weekend before we went out on an actual date:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/wedding-as-a-first-date.241100/

Here's a thread showing screenshots of the text conversation I had with this same woman:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/screenshot-thread.242198/

We did meet and hang a few times 10 years ago, but haven't spoken a word since. She might as well been dead and I would have never known. It was essentially like meeting someone entirely new.

Set up is everything.

Oh she was comfortable already because we had 2 dates. I asked if she wants to meet.

She asked for what

And i said for movie.

her reply was "" and then couple mins later "ok"

Then I said "Come then"

and shes coming one day I will choose which one.



I am just not sure if she knows what I meant. My ex knew what movie means. but not every chick think coming for movie means sex

 

[Murk]

Wanna come to mine for a drink/to chill.

I ask this quite early and sometimes even before a first date if I just wanna smash. It works sometimes.

On tuesday I have a chubby 19 year old coming over that said I can do whatever I want to her.

I'm trying not to masturbate at all to keep my hunger for ***** at top notch

 

[sosousage]

How much flirting has occurred up to this point? Have you talked about sex, flirted heavily about these things? If that's the case, she knows damn well why she is coming over.

If you have been much more passive and "respectable", she may be expecting much less than sex.

Like I said, it's all in the set up.

Not sure if you read the screenshot thread I linked, but I was already talking sexual positions and such before we met up. She knew exactly what she was getting into because of the nature of our discussions.

I don't know the nature of your discussions with this particular girl you're talking about. The more flirty and sexual they were, the more likely she knows what's expected on this home movie date.

Most women know what you're going after in these circumstances, though. Unless she's very young and naive....

its after the meeting already. we kissed and cuddled for 4h but she didnt let me take her bra off. it was our 3th date.


What should I do??? NEXT? she teased me with handjob attempts but no secks? pf annoying. I think thats bad sign if she didnt take her bra off at 3th date.

 

[Desdinova]

If you wanna progress to sex, you gotta really pack the dates. That means multiple locations on one date. It will help speed up the comfort level, and make her feel as if you've been dating for a long time.

If you do two locations for two dates, she'll be more than ready to fvck you.

 

[RangerMIke]

Just tell her you are binge watching... I don't know... what ever on Netflix and TELL her if she is interest, bring a bottle of wine, or whatever and give her a time. Anything other than "Sure... see you then" she isn't interested... dial up the next one.

The thing about NetFlix or Amazon Prime, is it starts when you want it to start, so if she has an issue with with time, she will counter offer...

Chicks know an invitation to a man's house is an invitation to fvck. If she comes over all you have to do is not fvck it up.

 

[sosousage]

Just make the second date for your area. Guided tour. Possibility of sex just goes without saying.

Should be the crescendo of a good night out/not wanting the night to end. Hence, not having the situation escalate feels more wrong in the circumstance.

Unless she just wants to go home at 10pm on a Saturday.... in which case reconsider compatability.

Expect lmr. That's fine. Her heart's in the right place by being in that position with you. Consider you've pushed the boundaries and made ground.

It's like the battle of Normandy or somesuch.

If she doesn't budge, i used to do loads of gamey stuff. But it comes accross as desperate.

Even playing my guitar genuinely comes across as "trying to soften her up", because they are ultra-sensative at that point, it seems.

So, i put on the Playstation. I've found this good. I only have two games, both football. And i get them to play the game at the highest difficulty whilst i laugh. I find that is brilliant in that kind of situ

when we were cuddling I asked why shes teasing me and then not fuvking and she said shes stopping herself from giving me sex
is this a game/manipulation/sex management trick ? should I call her out on this?

 

[icantgetlaid]

A text convo would go something like this (even if its just been a single date or two):

Me: Hey whats up Brittany what are you up to?
Brittany: Hey! nothing much, about to have dinner...hbu?
Me: Cool, im about to watch XYZ movie in a little bit, you should join me
Brittany: Ok, what time?

Or some variation of the above ... it all depends on the girls interest level though.

When she shows up, affection, and ultimately escalating to sex should be pretty easy at that point.