"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do you trigger a girl's emotions

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Based on what I've read at bodybuilding.com, I think that if I trigger a girl's emotions more during a cold approach, it will increase the chances of success. How do I do this?

I usually just say stuff like "how was your day," "what's your major," "why do you find your major so interesting" and so on.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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continued...

Her BF (6'5, tattoes, gang or bad boy social click): What did this chump say?
Me: Umm, I was just trying to trigger this girl's emotions in an attempt to get her interested in me. I'm very sorry, had I known she was your girl, I wouldn't have never even talked to her.
Her BF and his boys: Looking at each other like I'm full of shvt.
"Let's beat this sucker up"
Me: running
Them: chasing me
and then I'd probably end up in a garbage bin or something
 
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The 'cold approach' is an introductory stage and not an emotional stage in the relationship. You don't have power over her emotions yet, so quit kidding yourself. Introduce yourself, small talk and get her number - then move - that's it!
 

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By describing it to her. IE: "have you ever felt so connected to another person, that you just continue look into his eyes and you understand how wonderful it is that we've found each other... "

This is NLP/SS and can be found here:

www.fastseduction.com

Cheers. You have many hours of happy reading ahead of you. :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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