"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do you trigger a girl's emotions

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Based on what I've read at bodybuilding.com, I think that if I trigger a girl's emotions more during a cold approach, it will increase the chances of success. How do I do this?

I usually just say stuff like "how was your day," "what's your major," "why do you find your major so interesting" and so on.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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continued...

Her BF (6'5, tattoes, gang or bad boy social click): What did this chump say?
Me: Umm, I was just trying to trigger this girl's emotions in an attempt to get her interested in me. I'm very sorry, had I known she was your girl, I wouldn't have never even talked to her.
Her BF and his boys: Looking at each other like I'm full of shvt.
"Let's beat this sucker up"
Me: running
Them: chasing me
and then I'd probably end up in a garbage bin or something
 
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The 'cold approach' is an introductory stage and not an emotional stage in the relationship. You don't have power over her emotions yet, so quit kidding yourself. Introduce yourself, small talk and get her number - then move - that's it!
 

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By describing it to her. IE: "have you ever felt so connected to another person, that you just continue look into his eyes and you understand how wonderful it is that we've found each other... "

This is NLP/SS and can be found here:

www.fastseduction.com

Cheers. You have many hours of happy reading ahead of you. :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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