BGMan
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Can't you make a date for BOTH of you to go to the gym and work out?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How do you tell your gf shes fat?
- Thread starter Al Bundy
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
KillingTime
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This is the dumbest thing i've ever heard.... seriously.. wtf??? If you like her then what the hell does it matter if she's got a few extra pounds??? Nobodys perfect, you either like the girl or you don't... no offense but what are you?? 12???? Because that's an incredibly childish thing to ask of someone you care about (if it were for health concerns then no, but you obviously want her to lose the weight b/c you like skinny girls). Like I said, unless you are some little punk kid, you either like someone or you don't. There's no "oh i like her but shes got some flab and im not gonna have sex with her"... grow the hell up.
CrzyBadBoyDJ
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Yeah, she's a keeper with low self-respect after you probably.Originally posted by Al Bundy
i wanna hit it when shes skinny, i dont like fat my man. what's so hard to understand about that?
i'm not about to next this one, shes a keeper.
Ok...She's a little overweight (10-20 isn't fat.) You stayed with her a year, which means there are reasons beyond her being "fat." Either go to the gym with her, sleep with her (yes, that means sex!), or ditch her and go to someone else.Originally posted by Al Bundy
i wanna hit it when shes skinny, i dont like fat my man. what's so hard to understand about that?
i'm not about to next this one, shes a keeper.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
white_hype
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how do you tell her shes fat?
with the back of your hand
with the back of your hand
Evil-Rom
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You are so witty.Originally posted by white_hype
how do you tell her shes fat?
with the back of your hand
Dont say anything, she already knows she is overweight, she doesnt need to be told that.
Just bring it up your going to gym tomorrow and say your going to get in shape for summer or bulk for the winter or something.
If she's asks to go with you, then that means she want to do something about it.
Otherwise if she doesnt more or likely she doesnt care.
I have talked to girls about getting in shape etc and they usualy input their thoughts there about it and say 'yeh i been wanting to get into shape' etc.
Just bring it up your going to gym tomorrow and say your going to get in shape for summer or bulk for the winter or something.
If she's asks to go with you, then that means she want to do something about it.
Otherwise if she doesnt more or likely she doesnt care.
I have talked to girls about getting in shape etc and they usualy input their thoughts there about it and say 'yeh i been wanting to get into shape' etc.
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what do you say to a woman with two back eyes?Originally posted by white_hype
how do you tell her shes fat?
with the back of your hand
nothing, cuz you already done told her twice.
hit up fat chicks much?Originally posted by KillingTime
This is the dumbest thing i've ever heard.... seriously.. wtf??? If you like her then what the hell does it matter if she's got a few extra pounds??? Nobodys perfect, you either like the girl or you don't... no offense but what are you?? 12???? Because that's an incredibly childish thing to ask of someone you care about (if it were for health concerns then no, but you obviously want her to lose the weight b/c you like skinny girls). Like I said, unless you are some little punk kid, you either like someone or you don't. There's no "oh i like her but shes got some flab and im not gonna have sex with her"... grow the hell up.
actualy for her it is a health issue, also. dude i'm not gonna hit until she loses weight, she's a C borderline D, and her stomach pops out a little less than her tits. shes gotta lose some weight, period.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
when you're 5'2" 10-20 pounds over looks worse than on taller broads. i dont think she's fat, just chubby, but its a turn off though.Originally posted by crazykid
Ok...She's a little overweight (10-20 isn't fat.) You stayed with her a year, which means there are reasons beyond her being "fat." Either go to the gym with her, sleep with her (yes, that means sex!), or ditch her and go to someone else.
It would be nice for people to take care of themselfs, don't ya think?Originally posted by CrzyBadBoyDJ
Yeah, she's a keeper with low self-respect after you probably.
Then just tell her to come to the gym with you. Start eating healthier and make her eat healthier too. Go on some dates where you two walk.Originally posted by Al Bundy
when you're 5'2" 10-20 pounds over looks worse than on taller broads. i dont think she's fat, just chubby, but its a turn off though.
That, or have sex with her to burn off the calories.