"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How do you tell if a woman is engaged/married?

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Dash Riprock said:
Lol...for crying out loud...lol

Why all the cryptic and investigative BS??

Just ask: "Are you single?"

Done.
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What happened to being a mystery and all that jazz though? Also I feel like it’d be kinda awkward if she said no to that question.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Spaz said:
No one can tell, I mean by really 100% sure fire way to know.

However as a general rule of thumb, for me at least, the more flirty a women is, the more likely she has a man tucked somewhere.
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Yeah the friendly one is usually taken and happy because she’s getting the D.

The single one will seem more moody or pissed off.

Married with no ring on is rare imo.
 
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devilkingx2 said:
She'll tell you before you even start flirting, and if she doesn't it'll come up when you start. And if she refuses to mention it and isn't wearing an expensive looking ring, then either she's single (99%) or she doesn't intend for you to find out either way and you'll never know (read: DTF)
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True, except more than once I've flirted with girls with rings and they confessed wearing it to avoid getting hit on but we're fine with it as long as they were into you. Mind you turns out they never had intentions of giving it up but were more than happy to lap up the attention as long as it lasted
 
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