"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How do you stay motivated

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everywomanshero

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What techniques do you use to stay motivated? It's hard maintaining MLTRs or sometimes even getting off the couch to approach women in general, especially once you start to have some success.


I use the phrase "Never Again". This means I 'll never again allow the pain of feeling like I'm not in control of my dating life hurt me. No matter how much pain I associate with getting my butt off the loveseat, the pain of not doing so is 10x worse. That gets me off the couch and is strongly associated with the phrase "Never Again" for me.

Also works well when I am tempted to order fast food :) I think the guys writing in who feel hopeless need to realize there is methods to getting past that unproducitive way of thinking.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I noticed that when I did something I liked and was motivated to do. Then did the same thing for something I didn't necessarily like doing but had to do.

Each person is different so there's no point telling you I have a excited voice just behind my left ear and a tingling feeling that rises up into my head then spins round and round and I have a big smile on my face. :)
 
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