"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do you stay motivated

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What techniques do you use to stay motivated? It's hard maintaining MLTRs or sometimes even getting off the couch to approach women in general, especially once you start to have some success.


I use the phrase "Never Again". This means I 'll never again allow the pain of feeling like I'm not in control of my dating life hurt me. No matter how much pain I associate with getting my butt off the loveseat, the pain of not doing so is 10x worse. That gets me off the couch and is strongly associated with the phrase "Never Again" for me.

Also works well when I am tempted to order fast food :) I think the guys writing in who feel hopeless need to realize there is methods to getting past that unproducitive way of thinking.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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I noticed that when I did something I liked and was motivated to do. Then did the same thing for something I didn't necessarily like doing but had to do.

Each person is different so there's no point telling you I have a excited voice just behind my left ear and a tingling feeling that rises up into my head then spins round and round and I have a big smile on my face. :)
 
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