"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how do you show your sexuality?

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guys, I have a problem. My personality is naturally funny, laid-back, sarcastic and joking. The problem is, I get the initial attraction but can't build up on it. I know what I'm missing most: showing off my sexual side. But I don't know how to do that. I'm sure being sexual doesn't mean going around all day talking about d!ck and poossy, so what does "being sexual" actually mean? How are you guys showing off your sexual side?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Make sexual jokes that are also funny, and escalate KINO.....try kissing and move on up.
 
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i already have kino (in a playful manner), eye contact isn't a problem ... I don't think I know how to be ****y though .... like good, sexually ****y ... how do you do that?
 
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AlexTheGreat said:
i already have kino (in a playful manner), eye contact isn't a problem ... I don't think I know how to be ****y though .... like good, sexually ****y ... how do you do that?
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Are you sure your doing the right KINO? I mean if your touching her and kissing her and escalating at the right moments that sexual right there. Also, you should talk sexually you know make sexual jokes. These jokes can be ****y in a way. You can tease her about how bad she wants you etc. or how you think she can't handle you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Relax. I have a naturally joking personality as well. Sometimes i admit, i talk or joke to much sometimes it's nerves or pressure to just say something. I think this blocks the natural "sexual" side. So i calm down and let things flow naturally. I feel better and a lot less stressed out.
 
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martinM. said:
Relax. I have a naturally joking personality as well. Sometimes i admit, i talk or joke to much sometimes it's nerves or pressure to just say something. I think this blocks the natural "sexual" side. So i calm down and let things flow naturally. I feel better and a lot less stressed out.
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yeah I think that might have something to do with it .... I don't really plan out what I'm gonna say, just whatever comes out on the spot ...
 
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