"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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guys, I have a problem. My personality is naturally funny, laid-back, sarcastic and joking. The problem is, I get the initial attraction but can't build up on it. I know what I'm missing most: showing off my sexual side. But I don't know how to do that. I'm sure being sexual doesn't mean going around all day talking about d!ck and poossy, so what does "being sexual" actually mean? How are you guys showing off your sexual side?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Make sexual jokes that are also funny, and escalate KINO.....try kissing and move on up.
 
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i already have kino (in a playful manner), eye contact isn't a problem ... I don't think I know how to be ****y though .... like good, sexually ****y ... how do you do that?
 
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AlexTheGreat said:
i already have kino (in a playful manner), eye contact isn't a problem ... I don't think I know how to be ****y though .... like good, sexually ****y ... how do you do that?
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Are you sure your doing the right KINO? I mean if your touching her and kissing her and escalating at the right moments that sexual right there. Also, you should talk sexually you know make sexual jokes. These jokes can be ****y in a way. You can tease her about how bad she wants you etc. or how you think she can't handle you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Relax. I have a naturally joking personality as well. Sometimes i admit, i talk or joke to much sometimes it's nerves or pressure to just say something. I think this blocks the natural "sexual" side. So i calm down and let things flow naturally. I feel better and a lot less stressed out.
 
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martinM. said:
Relax. I have a naturally joking personality as well. Sometimes i admit, i talk or joke to much sometimes it's nerves or pressure to just say something. I think this blocks the natural "sexual" side. So i calm down and let things flow naturally. I feel better and a lot less stressed out.
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yeah I think that might have something to do with it .... I don't really plan out what I'm gonna say, just whatever comes out on the spot ...
 
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