"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how do you show your sexuality?

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guys, I have a problem. My personality is naturally funny, laid-back, sarcastic and joking. The problem is, I get the initial attraction but can't build up on it. I know what I'm missing most: showing off my sexual side. But I don't know how to do that. I'm sure being sexual doesn't mean going around all day talking about d!ck and poossy, so what does "being sexual" actually mean? How are you guys showing off your sexual side?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Make sexual jokes that are also funny, and escalate KINO.....try kissing and move on up.
 
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i already have kino (in a playful manner), eye contact isn't a problem ... I don't think I know how to be ****y though .... like good, sexually ****y ... how do you do that?
 
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AlexTheGreat said:
i already have kino (in a playful manner), eye contact isn't a problem ... I don't think I know how to be ****y though .... like good, sexually ****y ... how do you do that?
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Are you sure your doing the right KINO? I mean if your touching her and kissing her and escalating at the right moments that sexual right there. Also, you should talk sexually you know make sexual jokes. These jokes can be ****y in a way. You can tease her about how bad she wants you etc. or how you think she can't handle you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Relax. I have a naturally joking personality as well. Sometimes i admit, i talk or joke to much sometimes it's nerves or pressure to just say something. I think this blocks the natural "sexual" side. So i calm down and let things flow naturally. I feel better and a lot less stressed out.
 
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martinM. said:
Relax. I have a naturally joking personality as well. Sometimes i admit, i talk or joke to much sometimes it's nerves or pressure to just say something. I think this blocks the natural "sexual" side. So i calm down and let things flow naturally. I feel better and a lot less stressed out.
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yeah I think that might have something to do with it .... I don't really plan out what I'm gonna say, just whatever comes out on the spot ...
 
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