"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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how do you show your sexuality?

AlexTheGreat

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guys, I have a problem. My personality is naturally funny, laid-back, sarcastic and joking. The problem is, I get the initial attraction but can't build up on it. I know what I'm missing most: showing off my sexual side. But I don't know how to do that. I'm sure being sexual doesn't mean going around all day talking about d!ck and poossy, so what does "being sexual" actually mean? How are you guys showing off your sexual side?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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moto

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Make sexual jokes that are also funny, and escalate KINO.....try kissing and move on up.
 

AlexTheGreat

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i already have kino (in a playful manner), eye contact isn't a problem ... I don't think I know how to be ****y though .... like good, sexually ****y ... how do you do that?
 

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AlexTheGreat said:
i already have kino (in a playful manner), eye contact isn't a problem ... I don't think I know how to be ****y though .... like good, sexually ****y ... how do you do that?
Are you sure your doing the right KINO? I mean if your touching her and kissing her and escalating at the right moments that sexual right there. Also, you should talk sexually you know make sexual jokes. These jokes can be ****y in a way. You can tease her about how bad she wants you etc. or how you think she can't handle you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Relax. I have a naturally joking personality as well. Sometimes i admit, i talk or joke to much sometimes it's nerves or pressure to just say something. I think this blocks the natural "sexual" side. So i calm down and let things flow naturally. I feel better and a lot less stressed out.
 

AlexTheGreat

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martinM. said:
Relax. I have a naturally joking personality as well. Sometimes i admit, i talk or joke to much sometimes it's nerves or pressure to just say something. I think this blocks the natural "sexual" side. So i calm down and let things flow naturally. I feel better and a lot less stressed out.

yeah I think that might have something to do with it .... I don't really plan out what I'm gonna say, just whatever comes out on the spot ...
 
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