Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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how do you *show* your sexuality?

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this question might seem dumb, but ive been friended alot, and i know its because of this. Do i just straight up say to the chicks that i think theyre hot and i want them?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nah, don't just tell them straight out but hint at it, talk about sexual things if they fit into the convo, it's a game, so what do you do with games? Just play around and have fun with it, humans are sexual, you are sexual, so just go along with whatever pops into your head, stop repressing your feelings, it's all about how you express the sexual feelings, it's never a good idea to straight up tell someone "you are hot, i want you" you gotta have fun with it! what's the fun with saying something like that?
 

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Order an escort...
 

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well talking abotu sex and joking about it is one thing, but like, showing them that you have interest in them sexually...?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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People may have different ways but the only time I pretty directly tell a girl that I'm interested in her is when it's obvious to me that she's very much into me (she doesn't even have to say anything to me, it's just her reactions/body language/whatever else). Before that though, thinking back on my experiences... I usually don't tell her with words but one thing I do is I smile a lot, so that gives girls the hint... (and no I'm not talkin bout bigass cheesy smiles, so don't go doin that!)
 
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