SnowBlind77
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this question might seem dumb, but ive been friended alot, and i know its because of this. Do i just straight up say to the chicks that i think theyre hot and i want them?
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how do you *show* your sexuality?
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Not unless you're Brad Pitt. And even then, no.SnowBlind77 said:
Nah, don't just tell them straight out but hint at it, talk about sexual things if they fit into the convo, it's a game, so what do you do with games? Just play around and have fun with it, humans are sexual, you are sexual, so just go along with whatever pops into your head, stop repressing your feelings, it's all about how you express the sexual feelings, it's never a good idea to straight up tell someone "you are hot, i want you" you gotta have fun with it! what's the fun with saying something like that?
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well talking abotu sex and joking about it is one thing, but like, showing them that you have interest in them sexually...?
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
People may have different ways but the only time I pretty directly tell a girl that I'm interested in her is when it's obvious to me that she's very much into me (she doesn't even have to say anything to me, it's just her reactions/body language/whatever else). Before that though, thinking back on my experiences... I usually don't tell her with words but one thing I do is I smile a lot, so that gives girls the hint... (and no I'm not talkin bout bigass cheesy smiles, so don't go doin that!)