"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How do you react when you know friends were talking about you behind your back?

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Not necessarily negative...

Anyway me and 2 other friends were eating jap, i was sitting in middle. And i was telling a friend about girl problems, well not necessarily girl problems but just about feeling down cause i made myself like that. Anyway the other friend heard bits and pieces but not the whole thing...Since neither I nor him tell each other about personal problems.

Then we head to barnes & nobles up to magazine section. one friend went to the other side, then the other went also. When i was done looking at the books i went over to their side. They were sitting on the floor and one popped up and asked if i was ready to go. It's obvious that they were talking about me, and one had filled the other in on the missing parts. So i acted like nothing happened, sure i couldve confronted them but there's no point.

I mean i dont care if they do it in front of me, or if he actually asks me about it....but just dont do it behind my back. I mean we're all friends and all you know?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
I know what u mean man. you cant let small stuff affect you, after all you a DJ
you know what. youre absolutely right
 
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