"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How do you not get caught into the texting game?

demonic

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hey so you get the girls number and she starts to txt you rather than phone you.
She shows high intrest by the ammount of txt she sends you and the quick response.

So how do you guys not get caught with this?, i mean i got a girls number last night and wake up this morning to find a txt.

I respond to it a few hours later and then get 2 txt back asking questions within 2mins of each other.

I just wanna get out of this txting thing cause i think it ruined my last relationship.

DeMonic
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mutambo

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call her up and get a drink?
and then if she txt again just ignore
i guess
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
lol cmon man .. why u wanna stop her ??

Let her send u messages .

It's cause i wanna seem less intrested and by her txting me i gotta txt her back to keep it rolling.
 

MushroomGod

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Just text no big deal just don't go out of your way to send a message back. Texting is a good thing I hate the phone.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LostAndConfused

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Find an "out" to every short text message conversation. If she asks you an important question, like proposing a date, go for it, but to most other comments you can just ignore them. Texting isn't that bad, it just brings an extra dimension to the game that most people screw up.
 

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Just get the stigma in her head that you aren't a big fan of txt messaging. I've always done it with all my women. Tell her you're a bigger fan of phone conversation or just seeing her in person. Trust me, she will like that.
 
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