"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How do you not get caught into the texting game?

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hey so you get the girls number and she starts to txt you rather than phone you.
She shows high intrest by the ammount of txt she sends you and the quick response.

So how do you guys not get caught with this?, i mean i got a girls number last night and wake up this morning to find a txt.

I respond to it a few hours later and then get 2 txt back asking questions within 2mins of each other.

I just wanna get out of this txting thing cause i think it ruined my last relationship.

DeMonic
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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mutambo

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call her up and get a drink?
and then if she txt again just ignore
i guess
 
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Daddy The Pimp said:
lol cmon man .. why u wanna stop her ??

Let her send u messages .
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It's cause i wanna seem less intrested and by her txting me i gotta txt her back to keep it rolling.
 
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MushroomGod

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Just text no big deal just don't go out of your way to send a message back. Texting is a good thing I hate the phone.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Find an "out" to every short text message conversation. If she asks you an important question, like proposing a date, go for it, but to most other comments you can just ignore them. Texting isn't that bad, it just brings an extra dimension to the game that most people screw up.
 
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Just get the stigma in her head that you aren't a big fan of txt messaging. I've always done it with all my women. Tell her you're a bigger fan of phone conversation or just seeing her in person. Trust me, she will like that.
 
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